Singles & Dating - 8 July 2006

2006-07-08 07:48:23 · 13 answers · asked by Niamhie R 1

WHEN YOU THINK OF YOUR PAST LOVE, YOU MAY VIEW IT AS A FAILURE. BUT WHEN YOU FIND A NEW LOVE, YOU VIEW THE PAST AS A TEACHER. IN THE GAME OF LOVE, IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER WHO WON OR LOST. WHAT IS IMPORTANT IS YOU KNOW WHEN TO HOLD ON AND WHEN TO LET GO! YOU KNOW YOU REALLY LOVE SOMEONE WHEN YOU WANT HIM OR HER TO BE HAPPY, EVEN IF HIS OR HER HAPPINESS MEANS THAT YOU'RE NOT PART OF IT. EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR THE BEST. IF THE PERSON YOU LOVE DOESN'T LOVE YOU BACK, DON'T BE AFRAID TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE AGAIN, FOR YOU'LL NEVER KNOW UNLESS YOU GIVE IT A TRY. YOU'LL NEVER LOVE A PERSON YOU LOVE UNLESS YOU RISK FOR LOVE. LOVE STRIVES IN HURTING. IF YOU DON'T GET HURT, YOU DON'T LEARN HOW TO LOVE. LOVE DOESN'T HURT ALL THE TIME. THOUGHT THE HURTING IS STILL THERE TO TEST YOU, TO HELP YOU GROW. DON'T FIND LOVE, LET LOVE FIND YOU. THAT'S WHY IT'S CALLED FALLING IN LOVE BECAUSE YOU DON'T FORCE YOURSELF TO FALL. YOU JUST FALL. YOU CANNOT FINISH A BOOK WITHOUT CLOSING ITS CHAPTERS. IF YOU WANT TO GO ON, THEN YOU HAVE TO LEAVE THE PAST AS YOU TURN THE PAGES. LOVE IS NOT DESTROYED BY A SINGLE FAILURE OR WON BY A SINGLE CARES. IT IS A LIFETIME VENTURE IN WHICH WE ARE ALWAYS LEARNING, DISCOVERING, AND GROWING. THE GREATEST IRONY OF LOVE IS LETTING GO WHEN YOU HAVE TO HOLD ON AND HOLDING ON WHEN YOU NEED TO LET GO. WE LOSE SOMEONE WE LOVE ONLY WHEN WE ARE DESTINED TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE WHO CAN LOVE US EVEN MORE THAN WE CAN LOVE OURSELVES. ON FALLING OUT OF LOVE, TAKE SOME TIME TO HEAL AND THEN GET BACK ON THE HORSE. BUT DON'T EVER MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE OF RIDING THE SAME ONE THAT THREW YOU THE FIRST TIME. TO LOVE IS TO RISK REJECTIONS, TO LIVE IS TO RISK DYING, TO HOPE IS TO RISK FAILURE. BUT RISK MUST BE TAKEN BECAUSE THE GREATEST HAZARD IN LIFE IS TO RISK NOTHING! TO LOVE IS TO RISK NOT TO BE LOVED IN RETURN. HOW TO DEFINE LOVE: FALL BUT DO NOT STUMBLE, BE CONSTANT BUT NOT TO PERSISTENT, SHARE AND NEVER BE UNFAIR, UNDERSTAND AND TRY NOT TO DEMAND, HURT BUT NEVER KEEP THE PAIN, LOVE IS LIKE A KNIFE. IT CAN STAB THE HEART OR IT CAN CARVE WONDERFUL IMAGES INTO THE SOUL THAT ALWAYS LAST FOR A LIFETIME. LOVE IS SUPPOSED TO BE THE MOST WONDERFUL FEELING. IT SHOULD INSPIRE YOU AND GIVE YOU JOY AND STRENGTH. BUT SOMETIMES THE THINGS THAT GIVE YOU JOY CAN ALSO HURT YOU IN THE END. LOVING PEOPLE MEANS GIVING THEM THE FREEDOM WHO THEY CHOOSE TO BE AND WHERE THEY CHOOSE TO BE. FOR ALL THE HEARTACHES AND THE TEARS, FOR GLOOMY DAYS AND FRUITLESS YEARS, YOU SHOULD GIVE THANKS, FOR YOU KNOW, THAT THEY WERE THE THINGS THAT HELPED YOU GROW. LOVING SOMEONE MEANS GIVING HIM OR HER THE FREEDOM TO FIND HIS OR HER WAY, WHETHER IT LEADS TOWARDS YOU OR AWAY FROM YOU. LOVE IS A PAINFUL RISK TO TAKE BUT THE RISK MUST BE TAKEN NO MATTER HOW SCARY OF PAINFUL, FOR ONLY THEN WILL YOU EXPERIENCE THE FULLNESS OF HUMANITY AND THAT IS LOVE. ONLY LOVE CAN MAKE YOU CRY AND ONLY LOVE KNOWS WHY. IF YOU'RE NOT READY TO CRY, IF YOU'RE NOT READY TO TAKE THE RISK, IF YOU'RE NOT READY TO FEEL THE PAIN, THEN YOU'RE NOT READY TO FALL IN LOVE. THERE WAS A TIME IN OUR LIVES WHEN WE BECAME AFRAID TO FALL IN LOVE BECAUSE EVERY TIME WE DO, WE GET HURT. THEN I FIGURED THAT'S WHY IT'S CALLED FALLING IN LOVE. WHEN YOU DECIDE TO LOVE, ALLOW IT TO GROW. WHEN YOU PROMISE TO LOVE, REFUSE TO LET IT DIE!

~IN LOVE, NEVER PUT YOURSELF ON A SITUATION WHERE YOU'RE NOT SURE WHERE YOU STAND IN HIS OR HER LIFE, NEVER ASSUME, NEVER EXPECT, SO THAT IF HE OR SHE CHOOSES TO DROP YOU. YOU'LL HAVE ENOUGH STRENGTH TO MOVE ON.~

2006-07-08 07:46:53 · 15 answers · asked by aznflippgurl 5

Um, don't really believe in all that, but I just want to see if it's true.

2006-07-08 07:46:52 · 7 answers · asked by Ava 2

well i hav a bf that i hav no seen in lik 3 or 4 months, but he say that he will be bac soon, and he should hav been bac by now. i am very woried about him. should i leeve im or stil wait for him?

2006-07-08 07:46:39 · 11 answers · asked by *Yumi* 1

2006-07-08 07:45:01 · 12 answers · asked by Drew P 1

2006-07-08 07:44:09 · 9 answers · asked by Chris K 4

I want to get an idea of how prevalent it is these days, and did you prefer it over men.

2006-07-08 07:43:58 · 11 answers · asked by mike n 2

2006-07-08 07:43:24 · 13 answers · asked by suchaloser 1

Here it goes: 2 years ago i was seing this guy but i told him that we should not rush into things because he had just broken up with his gf of 4 years. ( i didnt wanna be the rebound) So he took that as a rejection and started seing a girl now they have been together for a approx 1 year and a 1/2 before hand i thought i was over him but guess what I'm not . at time i think he still has feeling due to somethings he tells me. We hangout at least 2 times a week and call each other 4 times a week. I keep on trying to get over him but my feelings get stronger . WHat sould i do?

2006-07-08 07:42:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married and Looking? Leave me your contact info...

2006-07-08 07:41:52 · 9 answers · asked by Married Male 2

how do i tell my best friend that i have a crush on him?

2006-07-08 07:41:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't consider myself perverted but i enjoy entertaining the thought of being peed on by a lovely young lady

2006-07-08 07:41:27 · 11 answers · asked by robby rob rob 1

2006-07-08 07:40:19 · 6 answers · asked by helios 2

descentely a serious relationship?online and also outside.

2006-07-08 07:39:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 07:39:09 · 7 answers · asked by keke 1

this is gonna sound selfish i like getting oral but i dont like giving its just so gross, put that thing in my mouth ... i that only one that feels that way?

2006-07-08 07:38:56 · 29 answers · asked by trina 2

My gf and I broke up after 6 and a half years. We live 400 miles apart and it was taking a toll on her. She's everything I've ever wanted, but she feels that there is better out there for her because we are so far apart. She thinks we arent meant to be. How do I let go when I feel I don't have a reason to? She is so perfect to me and I lvoe her to death. She still wants to be best friends, and the only part of our relationship that has changed is the sexual stuff. I don't know how she feels she can get over me if she's still talking to me the same. Not to mention, we just saw each other 3 weeks after we broke up and she was all over me again doing things. When I got home after the 6 hours car ride she told me she still wants to stay apart. I don't understand her logic. I need major help. I don't want to give her up. She's my best friend. But, I don't want to stand on the sidelines wondering if we can ever be together.

2006-07-08 07:38:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 07:36:12 · 10 answers · asked by classa1_milkshake 2

2006-07-08 07:35:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 07:35:39 · 26 answers · asked by â?  Lindseeâ?¢ [BreakDown]â?¥ 1

While taliking on the phone late one night, I mentioned to the guy that I liked fellatio and I haven't heard from him that much since. He seems annoyed when I call now. I really like this guy. Did I scare him off?

2006-07-08 07:35:38 · 21 answers · asked by Ree 1

My boyfriend just told me that he was going to a pool party and i was not invited. I said fine and have fun. Then he says to me what are you doing tonite beside hangout with another guy. I told i might go out with some of my female co-workers for a nite on the town. He was like so i c your going to with some sluts. I said no they are not sluts and we are just going to have fun. He hadn't said anything else after that.

2006-07-08 07:35:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

im turning 14 soon, and i want to convince my parents how old i should be if i start dating.

2006-07-08 07:33:43 · 29 answers · asked by Kel Kel 5

2006-07-08 07:33:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 07:33:20 · 8 answers · asked by Shelby 3

i want to go on a really godd date but nothing thats too expensive.
Any ideas??

2006-07-08 07:32:19 · 12 answers · asked by Green Day G 1

The guy I’ve been dating for over a month now, and with whom I’ve been intimate keeps asking me to crash at his place. I’ve always said no, and leave at midnight. What does that mean to you guys? When you ask a girl to stay over? I like him and don’t want him to think that I’m turning him down for any particular reason. Last time I saw him; as I left he just staid over for by the door a long time in his pjs, watching me get into my car, which he had never done. (let me explain, he lives in a house and if he is in normal clothes he walks me, not so when he is otherwise).

I don’t call much, but when I’m with him he gets my undivided attention. However things have gone from weekend’s outings to middle of the week thing. What does that mean?

2006-07-08 07:30:48 · 21 answers · asked by Lily 2

my boyfriend is on the road.

2006-07-08 07:28:29 · 8 answers · asked by smommeee 3

I planned a trip without my g/f and I don't know how to tell her. I am going to a place called Caye Caulker . It is a little island off of the coast of Belize in Central America.We have gone there together a few times but I want to go there without her this timei how do I tell her and do you feel this wrong ??I had no objection when she went on 2 vacations in the past with her girl friends. I need help because I have a feeling that this is going to get me locked out of the bedroom for some time. If anyone can come up with anything it would be much appreciated.

2006-07-08 07:26:56 · 15 answers · asked by irishlad 3

i'm callin my b.f. tonight
what should i tell him
pleaaaaaaaaaaz help
i want something romantic
please

2006-07-08 07:24:30 · 6 answers · asked by tiger_eyes_lover 1