this is gonna sound selfish i like getting oral but i dont like giving its just so gross, put that thing in my mouth ... i that only one that feels that way?
2006-07-08 07:38:56 · 29 answers · asked by trina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you are being selfish. Never ask for something that you aren't will to give.
2006-07-08 07:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by gearjammer63670 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. It is up to you, but I do offer you some advice. At least TRY to get over this negativity towards giving a man oral sex. Maybe if you give it a chance you will get used to the idea. I have seen marriages destroyed by this exactl thing. Sad but true. Ponder that and at least see if you CAN get past this phobia of yours for your own good. Most men reall like it. It would be sad for you to loose the guy that would have been otherwise perfect for you because of this one phobia. And it is, exactly that.
2006-07-08 14:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The true way to judge whether or not someone is selfish is in bed. Although you have the right to say what goes in your mouth. Maybe your just insecure about doing it right, I didn't do it good until my husband showed me.
PS Now I have confidence when it comes to oral and I enjoy turning him on.
2006-07-08 14:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Farrah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask and ye shall receive.....why is it "gross" to give it? Why do you call it "that thing"- and why is it NOT gross to get it, and
have somebody put their mouth on "your thing"? It doesn't selfish, it sounds hypocritical- like more than just personal choice. Why would you not do to someone what you would have
done to you?? .....Sounds like you got some real issues, and yeah, in my humble opinion, it IS selfish- very much so.
2006-07-08 14:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like head and that may seem a little selfish. But would you let him ejaculate on you without sucking? do you give hand jobs? The guy should be OK as long as you at least give hand and maybe lick it a little and they would like it more if you took as much of the load as possible. But then again it all depends on the man.
2006-07-08 14:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by Scarlet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't exactly find giving oral that great, but I will do it on occasions, as a little present to my fiance. Best time, is right after a shower, that way, you don't have to worry about how clean it is.
2006-07-08 14:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well really its not gross...its probably less gross then a females lol i mean its an outtie and ours is an innie kindof...ummm..i think its something to get over..especially if you are recieving it..its kina nice to return it sometimes right? I like getting rather then giving too but don't be too selfish ;)
2006-07-08 14:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jinkies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly that is a little selfish...but if you dont like it then dont do it...it wont be any good for him and especially you...but have you tried it? its not that gross, i love giving oral to my man. if it goes in your **** in can go in yo mouth! lol
2006-07-08 14:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way i like to recive oral sex but i hate to give it don't worry hunni your not the only one out they
2006-07-08 14:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the other way around. I like giving but dont care if I receive or not.
2006-07-08 14:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋