I recently met a guy in his work situation, who, when I ignore him seems to take that as independence and being unattainable. Is it me or do men think you are desperate just because you are open and friendly, and kind? When I'm friendly he acts like I'm a man-eater and I feel flamin' guilty!! Like I beat him over the head and dragged him in to a cave backwards. Then there are days he is so friendly, because I don't make any effort? Is he testing me - to see if I have self-respect, etc etc or is he just so unsure of himself that he goes from painfully shy to pushing himself so hard to deal with my openness, locking eyes and showing lots of emotion, to acting like I am chasing him around the room. I find his behaviour confusing. Anyone out there who can enlighten me with an mature, intelligent answer as to male psychology? Pls don't bother if you're going to be disrespectful and hurtful - e.g. `What a load of crap'. Thank you.
2006-07-08
00:13:54
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