we really love each other but now there is the issue of religion thats between us... she has now chosen to live her life strictly according to the bible and follow all the teachings... I take my life a day at a time and am not really that religious.. what do i do????
2006-07-08 00:06:18 · 28 answers · asked by bombed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have had a long relationship without sex
Then you have started saying you want to have sex That is different
She may have morals on this subject
If so you must respect her for this
Not pressure or force her to do something she is not ready for.
The other alternate option is SHE really has got something about religion
If you do love her You will respect her and try to understand her
The last option is
Where you having sex before she said
it`s not morally right to be having sex
So suddenly stopping having sex
IF SO FUCKHER
she is possibly having it off somewhere else
and hasn`t the guts to tell you IT`S OVER
You are going to have to sit down together and talk about this,
No one else can do that for you
You could print the answers you are getting to let her read them
That will get you talking about it,Possibly one of them will be the solution to your problem,
Hope that things work out for you both
Whatever happens
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2016-11-01 10:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think she doesn't want to date you anymore but after being together so long she just doesn't have any way of saying the words out loud.
If i'm wrong then you must respect her wishes and make the choice whether or not stick by her, but remember the religion issue isn't going to go away...are you prepared for a religous lifestyle and also what about when you have kids??
2006-07-17 05:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her why don't you marry her? What are you waiting for, a perfect world? Days to last 26 hours?
You sound like most of these spineless woosses around these days. They want their girlfriends to put out but they don't want any responsibility. Grow up and act like a man or let her go. Maybe then she can actually find someone who respects her and shares her values. It's plain that you do neither.
2006-07-08 00:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her change of outlook on life and drop her quickly. If she can't accept you for YOUR beliefs then you are on a long and lonely road.
It's no different to someone joining any other Cult. Clearly there is a gap in her life that she is trying to fill. Is there one particular person who has led her in this direction? Normally there is.
Wish her all the best for the future and don't look back.
2006-07-08 00:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult issue. Especially if you have been having sex.
Firstly respect her wishes.
Give yourself time to reflect how you feel about her.
Don't get pushed into marrying her.
Ask her or one of the Elders or Ministers to explain to you why this is such an issue. If you can't get your head around their explanation then move on.
Good luck
2006-07-21 10:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by Hedgehog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl who has did (once) do what she is now doing. It's a moral thing and also a confusion thing. Step back and let her realise what she wants. If she sticks to it (once you start it's hard to go back) then you're either going to have to respect her decision or move on.
All the best.
2006-07-08 00:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by bullartodown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point out her chuch aint the moral thing she thinks it is... see these links and look up the inquisition and witch burning...
ie bible quote
If a man mappens to meet a vigin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, he shall pay the father fifty shekles of silver. He must marry the girl as he has violoated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives
(deuteronomy 22:28-30)
Ie the bible says any guy can rape a girl he wants to then buy her and she has to be his rape slave till he dies
Likewise they used to have the death penalty for working on a Sunday like if you are a doctor or fireman.
See all the sexisim and check these out.
'The Magdelen Laundries' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here.
http://www.thewildgeese.com/pages/magdalen.html
http://www.netreach.net/~steed/magdalen.html
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0380703/
http://www.bbc.co.uk/northernireland/drama/sinners/interviews/annemarie.shtml
Origonal documentry available from
http://cgi.ebay.com/SEX-IN-A-COLD-CLIMATE-DVD-DOCUMENTRY-REG-0_W0QQitemZ6437066430QQcategoryZ617QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/panorama/3180406.stm
http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressreleases/stories/2003/10_october/09/panorama_holy_city.shtml
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/panorama/3147672.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/panorama/3180174.stm
Ie show that this system she places her ethics on resembles the nazis, its not a system of love at all...
Plus poitnout how did the kanagroos and penguins get on the ark which appears to be a rip off of the story of gilgamesh etc
Or how moral was it to burn alive the local healer etc
2006-07-08 00:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably a way to trick you into popping the question? will you marry her? or is the religion thing too heavy on you? Can you live with such a religious and dutyful person?
2006-07-08 00:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously shes getting shifty abt your relationship. maybe she thinks u r not committed enough. then again, maybe she really want to be religious. Its all a test to see if u really love her.
U will find out yourself if u do as well, for that matter.
The thing is, can you take her being religious? Will you marry her?
think abt it all man...your lifes about to have drastic changes
2006-07-08 00:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by het.mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋