While taliking on the phone late one night, I mentioned to the guy that I liked fellatio and I haven't heard from him that much since. He seems annoyed when I call now. I really like this guy. Did I scare him off?
2006-07-08 07:35:38 · 21 answers · asked by Ree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't say it BLUNTLY!!! There are ways to state what you like without being crude. I too have class, that's why I know the difference!!!
2006-07-08 07:40:35 · update #1
Yes; you were crude and have a filthy mouth. You turned him off with your overt forwardness.
2006-07-08 07:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by christopher s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are different. I would have said, "Wait a moment baby, I'll be right over". Then if you seemed interested, I would have been knocking on your door very soon. Or, I would at least become better friends with you to see where it leads. That is, if I was at all interested. I think it sounds sexy and fun for a girl to talk that way, but I would want you to put your money where your mouth is. Ha Ha. Of course I would gladly return the favor.
Hope you are happy and smiling everyday.
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Guys don't give fellatio unless they are gay. Look it up in your dictionary.
2006-07-08 07:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with stating what you like, and not all guys run from that sort of thing. Could just be that the guy has a deep dislike to that, people are funny in that way, someone likes something they don't, and boom, they're gone haha. As for why? too many situations, probably no GOOD reasons lol.
2006-07-08 07:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Melander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not at all. Some men like to have authority in saying that hemselves. Other's want the challange and not have it so easy. But there are men, with sensibilities and treat their women with respect, LOVE THAT!
The same kind of shyness applies towards women as well.
You didn't do ANYTHING WRONG! You were honest and forthright with a person who you LIKE AND TRUST.
Your a rare bird sister. Someone is out there for you!
2006-07-08 07:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you've probably scare him off by mentioning sex. I can't say that guys don't like sex, but guys don't like a girl who come out too strong, and give too obvious of a "signal." us guys wanna appear Masculine and want to think that we made the first move, so, yeah, it was a mistake to mention that.
On the other hand, maybe he's one of the few guys that wasn't thinking about sex just yet and feel pressured when you talked about it. or Maybe he's just Gay! LOL
2006-07-08 07:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he was a man that didn't want to hear about what you like sexually then he is not a good man to be dating in the first place. To make a good lover friend and mate you need to find one that wants to please you just as you would do for them. Don't back down from your need just because a few have flown the coupe make sure that your needs are excepted and validated just as they would like theirs.
2006-07-08 07:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how old you are....but to say such a thing, could well be scaring him off..... or doesn't like that idea.....but I can not imagine he wouldn't like you to give him oral sex.....or maybe the way you put it, he thought that meant you had a penis too? hmmmm.....you should make this question a little more specific I think, or lets us know more about this situation
2006-07-08 07:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, his loss.
I like women that are willing to tell me what they like.
Some guys, I guess, want timid, shy women, some guys just don't really care. Had you been intimate with him yet? If not, it could've seemed to him that you were too forward.
Either way, like I said, his loss. Don't stop telling guys what you like, how else are you going to get it?
2006-07-08 07:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Performance anxiety... also you may have made him feel dumb by using the term fellatio. Best wishes
2006-07-08 07:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's good to get these things out first to know what your partner wants and makes them happy. I guess he just had no tongue or taste for it? I hope you find a guy like me one day have fun yours truly Sir Lick Alot.
2006-07-08 07:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by william R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋