Singles & Dating - 8 July 2006

I think I am on the androgynous spectrum perhaps tomboyish lesbian but definitely not stonebutch. I have not been able to get a date with another lesbian femme or butch for years, nor even get a smile or flirt. However in the past 6 months I have had two guys, complete strangers chasing after me. Can someone explain this? One guy left a love note on my dryer at the laundrymat while another guy, a waiter, waits on me like I was the Queen Mother, bringing me drinks every 5 minutes and stuttering whenever he tries to speak to me. He told me he liked me. The other guy poured out his heart in the letter. Both are nice guys probably, but this freaks me out that guys like me and other dykes won't even speak to me. I had numerous guys attracted to me in another place. Why??

How should I handle the guys? Should I tell them I'm lesbian? Should I say nothing because they might end up stalking me? I really don't want to be mean and hurt their feelings.

2006-07-08 16:46:18 · 2 answers · asked by wtptoo 3

Ladies - there are a million "non-hot" guys out there that embody exactly what you are looking for in a man. They will treat you like gold. They will work hard at the relationship There's only one problem: guys are told that if they aren't Brad Pitt (or some equivilent), you won't even look twice at them. This causes a lot of guys to give up.

What can these guys do to make you look past their external imperfections and see the real great guy inside? Don't say sense of humor. We all know that's crap. There are a lot of funny lonely guys out there. There's something missing to this equation.

Tell us the secret.

2006-07-08 16:45:05 · 16 answers · asked by contrafilms 5

i want u 2b brutally honest stop lying 2 yourself what really interest u in a guy

2006-07-08 16:44:46 · 6 answers · asked by shredder97 2

Also, is it true that all Jamaican men cheat?

2006-07-08 16:43:43 · 10 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2

2006-07-08 16:41:32 · 16 answers · asked by UFC middleweight 2

2006-07-08 16:40:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 16:39:41 · 17 answers · asked by erbias 1

2006-07-08 16:37:43 · 15 answers · asked by rfr21 2

Normally, if I'm attracted to someone I'll go for it, invite him for drinks, whatever. But I can't even say hello to this guy I know without my knees getting shaky, and that's never happened. I get all nervous and my heart starts beating really fast. I have to sit down if we're having a conversation my legs are shaking so bad. I'm 23 and this is a first. I don't know what it means. Can anyone help me out with this one?

2006-07-08 16:37:22 · 4 answers · asked by Hopeless Romantic 1

Tonight during foreplay before sex with my husband he kept moving his finger around near my butt hole. I have heard in movies and things that women enjoy being fingered around there, but I never thought I would enjoy it. I thought it might be a nice new thing to try. If anyone is into that, tell me what you think, and do you have any pointers on what feels best?

2006-07-08 16:36:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, This guy and I are into alot of the same things.... music, style.... How do I ask him out and what do we do??? Like I've said before, I've been outta the dating scene for a few years and am only used to older guys..... I'm just lost when it comes to crap like this.... any help is appreciated!!

2006-07-08 16:35:32 · 9 answers · asked by Bangin To The Beat 2

i asked him if its kay for me to come over...i just wanna chill out at his place...thing is, i just knew him for like a month...en really i dun want him to think that i like him like that u know...should i just not come over to his place no more? but we're just friends...whats wrong w/ coming over to his place? dont we go to our friends' house all the time?

2006-07-08 16:35:28 · 9 answers · asked by f00lg4l2006 1

With all the bible thumpers and god fearing people i doubt i will get answers. but here it goes? Has anyone found themselves attracted to someone who is either 15 years plus older or younger than themselves?

2006-07-08 16:34:49 · 8 answers · asked by late_sleeper35 5

she started to flirt with me alot lately

2006-07-08 16:33:35 · 9 answers · asked by pirate77 1

2006-07-08 16:33:00 · 4 answers · asked by shortstuff 2

A friend told me that my bf had kissed and felt up her and 2 other girls and he admitted to it. I have forgiven him and I still love him. He admitts what he did was wrong and he really is sorry. I believe him but I am just afraid that he will do it again. It has been less than a week since I found out and our relationship is stronger than ever but can he really change and be truely faithfull to me?

2006-07-08 16:32:46 · 32 answers · asked by Sassy 2

2006-07-08 16:31:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 16:27:14 · 14 answers · asked by maniac 4

2006-07-08 16:25:44 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3

I am a college student struggling in math. I want to pass my class but I haven't seen my out of town boyfriend in a few days and want to spend time with him. I want him to know that he is my top priority, but I can't fail this exam. What do I do?

2006-07-08 16:25:32 · 13 answers · asked by cocoaluvva 1

I am just wondering because a boy my age told me he loved me and I am not sure if I am ready to be in love yet.Is that because I am not matture enough or is it because I am not comfortable with being in love?So which sex mattures faster?P.S. This was a couple of months ago.

2006-07-08 16:23:37 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 16:23:25 · 20 answers · asked by jlassier90 2

2006-07-08 16:22:35 · 4 answers · asked by Mr. Mojo Rising 3

2006-07-08 16:21:50 · 10 answers · asked by thumper 1

as i said, my motto is be prepared, so i m stickin to it. tell me how i do it, plz and whoever gives me the longest, most elaborate detailed answer, and a litle honest part of what i should do, sogive me a little advice, and there ya go, thats an easy 12 points 4 u! (2 for answering, and 10 for the best answer) and whatever the fuOk u say, dont gimmie the "your too young" cr@p or that "dont go past kissing" $hit, lol i m not a frikken perv like u think i m, lol. i m just a 12 year old who needs some answers, so ANSWER THE QUESTION!! LOL!

Sincerely,
Beatleslover650

2006-07-08 16:21:46 · 5 answers · asked by beatleslover650 2

I have always been made fun of because many of the girls I have liked are looked down on by other people because they are the "ugly" people. I think that it doesn't matter, as long as you like them it doesn't make a difference about appearances, right?

2006-07-08 16:20:04 · 17 answers · asked by generalgrievous16 2

2006-07-08 16:19:33 · 9 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6

There's this guy I've liked for a couple months now. We first met in person sometime in May, and I went to his house with my friend and her boyfriend. Later, he & my friend's boyfriend came over, drunk, and he kept saying how much he liked me. I thought it was just the booze talking, but the next day he called my friend to say how much he liked me. He had a girlfriend, but about a week after that happend, he broke up with her, rumor was for me. We started talking a lot on MSN and on the phone, and he was telling everyone how much he liked me, even his ex girlfriend. I told him I was going out of town for awhile, but I came home early.. And I find out he got a girlfriend from 3 states away, who he's never met. He tells everyone he still likes me, but I don't know. I try calling him but everytime I do, he always says, "Can I call you back? K bye babe" but he never calls back. Please help.. I really like him

2006-07-08 16:17:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 20 year old college student and I've never been in a relationship with a guy. I don't have any friends, and I'm pretty much a loner. People that are close to me tell me I made a choice, to be like that. It's been 3 years now since I've been pretty much a loner and a lone. Since I graduated high school I moved around a lot and haven't been able to make good friends. I'm worried that I'm destined to be alone forever. Why? tombraider123123@yahoo.com

2006-07-08 16:16:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well i like this girl and this other one..... and this other one............. ( and no i am not a little 10 yeer old with a crush! im 14 and dont say im too yung!) i know i know it sounds relly wierd but ok one girl lets say girl "A" iv known for 3 yeers and liked her since girl "B" iv known for 2 yeers and like in the past few munths and i get to talk to alot mor than "A" (and peeple r always saying wer a cute cuple) and girl "C" it is impossible for me to go out with becauseshe lives 2 hours away and i only talk to her on aim............... oh wait i didnt wanna say this erllier but its part of the problem too theres this other girl a yeer older than me that lives 30 min. away BUT I DONT KNOW WUT TO DO WAHAHAHA (if u never herd a dude cry online this is the time if u wanna see them cry in reel life kik them in the nads) PLZ HELP ME CHOOSE OR SUMTIN HELP ME SOLVE THIS PROBLEMS!

2006-07-08 16:14:36 · 14 answers · asked by irish skater 2