Why haven't I ever been in a relationship with a guy?

Question

I'm a 20 year old college student and I've never been in a relationship with a guy. I don't have any friends, and I'm pretty much a loner. People that are close to me tell me I made a choice, to be like that. It's been 3 years now since I've been pretty much a loner and a lone. Since I graduated high school I moved around a lot and haven't been able to make good friends. I'm worried that I'm destined to be alone forever. Why? [e-mail]

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with that. First step, if you don't want to be alone, is to get out and be around people. Work is a good place. Or a hobby or interest you have could bring you around people. After the first step is meeting people. Meeting people leads to meeting guys. That leads to getting one.