well, i always say if you did'nt see it or have him approach you with it.then it may not have really happened at all.be carefull who you listen to,even your friends or listening to silly rumers.most are out to destroy your relationship to get your man.however you said he admitted it.so, yes if he does it once,he will do it again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!join my group @ letstalkaboutlife-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
2006-07-08 16:39:48
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answered by ? 4
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the similar old cheater, cheat back. which could no longer purely my personal observations as a therapist. in accordance to at least one learn finished contained in the late ninety’s a minimum of 60% of adult males could have an extramarital affair in some unspecified time sooner or later and of those seventy 5% could have a 2d one. this does no longer propose that his affair ought to reason her to break up. If she pick to maintain her marriage, both of them pick to ascertain why the affair got here about. Agreeing on the reason being a significant first step in route of reestablishing the believe. in the journey that they are unable to succeed in this contract, then probability is that both he will have a 2d affair or they're going to damage up. yet this contract on the reason is only a first step. each and each and every of them then needs to come back to a decision in the journey that they pick to spend the emotional capital to both fix what's incorrect or damage up. it truly is continually good in the journey that they can make this determination together yet in many circumstances it isn't plausible. an effective marriage counselor can help them make those judgements.
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answered by ? 4
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He could be, but I would make it known to him that trust and respect are both privileges that are to be earned, and he has lost both with you, and have to earn it back again. Keep a close eye on him, and make sure he knows that though you have forgiven him for his actions, it does not necessarily mean that your relationship automatically goes back to the place it was before you found out about this.
2006-07-08 16:38:40
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answered by rhino 6
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OK, DEPENDS IF HE REALLY DOES SINCERLY LOVE U N WANTS UR REALATIONSHIP TO WORK...I WAS IN THE SAME BOAT AS U AND MY MAN FELT UP AND KISSED AN ENGLISH PACK PACKER, THEN CAME AND TOLD ME HE HAD DONE IT! I FORGAVE HIM ATOLD HIM IF HE DOES IT AGAIN HIS OUT AND OUT FOR GOOD! ITS BEEN 2 YEARS SINCE THEN AND ITS MADE US STRONGER...IN SAYING THAT WE DO STILL HAVE OR USUAL ARGUMENTS! BUT THE PART THAT SAYS YOUR REALATIONSHIP IS STRONGER THEN EVER OBVERSLY HE DOESNT THINK SO IF HIS GOING OFF WITH YOUR FRIENDS! **** GIRL YOUR FRIENDS THEY ARENT TRUE FRIENDS IF THEY ARE DOING THAT WITH YOUR GUY AND HE AINT MUCH OF A GUY TO BE DOIN IT WIF YOUR FRIENDS! HUN MAYBE U NEED TO LEAVE HIM FOR A WHILE NEVER NO WHO YA MIGHT MEET SOME ONE TEN TIMES BETA! BUT IF NOT ABSENTS MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER! :d
2006-07-08 16:44:32
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answered by Anonymous
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What is your gut telling you, to me once a cheat always a cheat, he will be nice and sweet and pay alot of attention to you for awhile, then little by little he will fall back into his old habits saying he has to work while going out, there is still that 1% chance he will not do it again
2006-07-08 16:38:08
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answered by twistedsingle 4
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Well, if he cheats again, then you'll be an idiot if you stay with him. I can see forgiving him the first time. But not a second. He either will or he won't, there's nothing you can do about it. If you forgive him a second time you'll have only taught him that he can do anything and get away with it. And you'll be teaching yourself that you deserve less than the best.
2006-07-08 16:37:38
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answered by Gidget 3
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No way I am sure that he has seen the errors of his ways and knows that you are the cats meow and so he will never do anything to jeopardize his relationship with you ever again in fact he will probably bring you roses everyday for the rest of your life (or his) just so that you know for sure that he is sincerely sorry.
2006-07-08 16:39:34
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answered by Anonymous
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NO, now you have opened a pandora box that says to him, if you cheat and say you aresorry and pay some extra attention to me it will all be ok. How do you know he hasnt done this other times and you just dont know? Is he really sorry or just sorry he got caught? Ask yourself, will you ever really be able to trust him?
2006-07-08 16:39:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, he will cheat on you again, so lose him now if you don't want a boyfriend who cheats. Look at it this way: if someone can do something once, then it's part of their character, which makes it part of who they are, and if he thought it was okay the first time, he'll think it's okay the next.
2006-07-08 16:39:05
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answered by Anonymous
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either he will change because he loves you or he will continue cheating on you with witchever oppertunity he has.remeber though once a cheater always a cheater. you can either stay with him and take the chance that he might do it again and/o believe that he can change his cheating ways or you can break up with him and find someone who is true to you.
2006-07-08 16:39:50
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answered by tina2000 3
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Hun your obviously very young once a cheater always a cheater he thinks he got away with it because you forgave him he will do it again get someone who appreciates you and will never do that sort of thing ditch the looser you deserve better!!!
2006-07-08 16:36:46
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answered by kathy 2
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