Boy trouble. Help? Pretty please?

Question

There's this guy I've liked for a couple months now. We first met in person sometime in May, and I went to his house with my friend and her boyfriend. Later, he & my friend's boyfriend came over, drunk, and he kept saying how much he liked me. I thought it was just the booze talking, but the next day he called my friend to say how much he liked me. He had a girlfriend, but about a week after that happend, he broke up with her, rumor was for me. We started talking a lot on MSN and on the phone, and he was telling everyone how much he liked me, even his ex girlfriend. I told him I was going out of town for awhile, but I came home early.. And I find out he got a girlfriend from 3 states away, who he's never met. He tells everyone he still likes me, but I don't know. I try calling him but everytime I do, he always says, "Can I call you back? K bye babe" but he never calls back. Please help.. I really like him

There's another thing..there are to guysI used to like but never really knew both added me to MSN. They both like me, and I like them both.. GEE! Help!

ALSO: Keith isn't a drunk! this was a one time good deal! And he's a virgin, so how can he be using me!

Answer 1

It sounds to me like he is playing games. He has a girlfriend 3 states away and you also keep hearing that he still likes you. There is something wrong with that picture. I would suggest that you simply stop calling, and if he "really" likes you, he will eventually call. It's possible that he likes this idea that you like him and thinks that he has a chance with you no matter how he treats you, because he keeps telling you he will call you back and instead you wind up being the one to call him back everytime. If he doesn't call back, then you know it wasn't meant to be anyway, and who wants someone who treats them like they aren't important? Good luck to you. I really hope that he turns out to be a great guy just playing hard to get.

Answer 2

How sure are you that he has this other girlfriend? and if he hasnt even met her, chances are they are just rumours and since he told both you and your friend that he's into, message him and tell him in no uncertain terms that either he's man enough to make a decision about the relationship and commit, or you moving on to find someone who is willing to tell you that he likes without the help of alcohol (since it seems that was the only time he seemed to have any guts). And if he decides against the relationship: the hell with him. they're plenty of fish in the see. And if he dumped his girlfriend because he likes you, (after meeting you a couple of times and without even knowing you), how sure are you that he wont break up with you when he meets someone else, or starts chatting to someone on yahoo or msn. Sounds to me like you've got to give him an ultimatum. Either way life is too short to waste precious time on people and situations that dont deserve it. Life is for living, not for waiting around for someone who said they'd call.

Answer 3

well did u or do u like him because if so maybe u should try letting him know that because maybe he thought since u never told him straight up you liked him that u didnt and that maybe he is either trying 2 make u jelous to see if u like him or not or he is trying to move on for both of u so just try talking to him and ask him why he never calls u back and if u did something just try to make it up or find out what happened cuz chances are he really still likes you but isnt shure if u like him.

Answer 4

discover out what he likes, TAG fragrance, particular outfits, football jerzies etc and spark up a convo about guy sh** . adult males love a woman that would carry a activities, music, vehicle, type convo with em, which will be a dream female. next date bypass someplace the position there'll be a lot to attempt this adult males want to bypass and do like watch the game, eat steak sandwiches and drink problematic beer ( in simple terms kidding)

Answer 5

Girlfriend let me tell you a boy man or male figure will tell you anything. It sounds to me that he has you right where he needs you to be to get what he wants.DONT FALL FOR IT GIRL!! Just like he said 'HE LIKES YOU'.And I don't know if you ever heard this saying before but it's true it goes like this 'NEVER LEAVE THE ONE YOU LOVE FOR THE ONE YOU LIKE BECAUSE THE ONE YOU LIKE WILL LEAVE YOU FOR THE ONE THEY LOVE! So he probably didn't leave his girl so it's ok to like him and find you somebody who is going to love you and you will love them back

Answer 6

The fact he came over to your house drunk should be an indicator of something.

Answer 7

Damn.... you need to have a one on one conversation with him in person. Arre you 2 going out?? im not sure but if you are, you should brake up with him and ask him what he wants.. whether its her or you... just be straight up with him. if all fails, then just try to move away from the relationship all together and try to move on.

Answer 8

tell him if he cant call you back then dont tell you that he will in the first place. he probably really does like you though. its probably just a comitment thing, he cant commit to one girl. tell him you dont want to share him with any other girl. if he doesnt like you the way you like him tell him not to wait your time and let him decide what he wants to do.

Answer 9

talk to him, say whydo u never call me back? if he gives u a crappy answer tehn forget about him! he doesnt care enuff then. or hes just to immature for the relationship (depending on how old you are)

Answer 10

So, what can WE do for YOU? Wait to see if he calls you back! If he doesn't than, find another guy!