Other - Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

Alot of the time i feel as thought i am addicted to my partner, perhaps not as much when we are on good terms but when we fight. After a fight he tends to back away, go for a long walk and not speak to me for hours because he needs time away from me to clear his head. But i cannot handle this, whenever i have a fight i prefer to clear it up straight away and move on.

Recently i have found that i almost seem to be addicted to him when we fight, i always ring him first, txt him, and try to contact him with any means necessary. But all my attempts are met with hostility, as he gets more angry and appears to make him more angry. He wont answer my calls, reply to txt or even speak to me for hours.

On the off chance that i do get to speak to him, i end up apoligising even though none of it is my fault and i seem to let things go even though it isnt my fault and nothing ever changes!?

Is it my imagination or am i addicted to my partner?

2007-12-13 11:27:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is your one most fav name?
ONLY ONE!!!!

2007-12-13 11:16:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't move anywhere else, they are living 75% of the time in the mountains so everything is fine most of the time BUT fiance is still attached I guess and when his dad asks him to come to the mountains for the weekend, it's done. I have no choice in the matter. Now that its the holidays, its worse. On thanksgiving, I went to my dads while he went to his sisters and they felt that I should have went with them even though I promised my dad first. Now it's Xmas and I told fiance I didn't want to go to the mountains but we're going since my family's parties are different days. Does this mean hes not ready for marriage if he doesnt want to spend a holiday alone with me?Also, I'm 20 wks preg. and want my kid to see my family too. How can I get the point across that my family isn't dead and isn't in another country and that seeing them is very important to me? I love him to death but I'm not ditching my whole life for him. What should I say and what should I do?

2007-12-13 11:14:35 · 4 answers · asked by templeowlchick06 2

want's to move to a diffrent state should I follow him or should I convince him to stay in the town that I grew up in? plz help!

2007-12-13 10:11:46 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4

What would you get up to ??

2007-12-13 10:06:48 · 13 answers · asked by Naughty Farmgirl ;o) 5

CAN YOU PLEASE CHEER ME UP!. I have had a bad day, actually a bad month.

My big screen is doing funky stuff with The color, same day I got my kicker check in the mail.......Guess I know where that money is going.

My daughters monthly medication went up from $10.00 generic to 50% generic(I had to pay $180.00)

Just paid for my surgery(had my tonsils out) $1500.00

My so called best friend of 15 years got mad at me because I was able to watch her kid one time, I had plans already(even though, I watched her kid numerious times including when she was working daily as a temp for 2 months, and when she went overnight someplace with her husband).

SO, COME ON CHEER ME UP!

2007-12-13 10:00:18 · 8 answers · asked by Bradygirl 5

I have three sons 15-14-9 the two olderones have been driving crazy this school year constant calls home detention suspension. If not one the other or sometimes both. My 14 loves pushing peoples buttons and getting negative attention and wont stop he said he doesnt know why he does what he does I have him in counseling but he has the counselor fooled. I had to tak ehim out of hi sschool and put him in another school because he was so caught up in dram athat he was causing and couldnt seperate himself from. what can I do? The other the 15 is always lieing o me and talking loud to me when he is mad at me. He has a very active social life and is well liked at school unlike my other son. This year he seems to be in the principles office alot with talkign innapropratie to girls horse playing. I told him it needs to stop and he says he will but he still goes and does the same thing again. He has been in the trouble 13 times already this school year.

2007-12-13 09:48:40 · 9 answers · asked by lovely 2

what is you suggestion if ur friend love watching TV and can't concentrate on other stuff!!!!!!!!!!!e.g.education most important one

2007-12-13 09:34:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

make a better world with a smile ,a hug and tell them you love them, try it!

2007-12-13 09:28:00 · 1 answers · asked by TheAsender 5

2007-12-13 08:53:55 · 3 answers · asked by I ♥ my boyfriend! 5

My parents are allways goin on how it better it is now for kids blah blah .Whilst we,ve got to stay at school ,get good grades,have sarcastic teachers,and cant easily drop out.There is more pressure.I wanted to see if any one thinks its not like they make out so I can tell them not all older people think there way.

2007-12-13 08:52:48 · 12 answers · asked by Lilly A 1

2007-12-13 08:08:33 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-13 07:54:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i ws wrkin in skol as teachr n last week my skol principal cald me n sed dat i shud mak exmintion pprz of d sbjct which im takin.i thot y he sed dt wdout ne reason wen exmz r gana strt on 19 jan .ba still i made dat altough ma sis is seriously she is hospitalisd ba as i ws sincere to my duty i made dt widout askin principal wts d reason n at dt i tyme i ws tynkin dat he myte gana fire 4m ma job.ba stil i made n gav him widin 1day.i was upset cuz of ma sis ..den i gave pprz to principal n he sed dot *** frm tomoro to wrk. i ws lyk ok widout askin him y? jus sed m lft wid one ill mak in break tym cuz ma sis isnt fyn.n he strted syin bad things bout ma sis i strtd cryin lyke nethin .y he sed dat? n den whole skol frm wea i wantd ma salary misbhvd wid me. dae al shouted at me. i was cryin all day cuz of dis insult.ba now im rgrtin dat y he sed so n y i gave him examination pprz... i m guilty. plz teme wa shud i do. i was so sincere wid ma job evn den he dae did dat. evn i gav him Q pprz

2007-12-13 07:51:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you have what you and your family need to eat well? Keep warm? Use the restroom? Provide lighting? Emergency Medical Care? Etc...

Are you in a City? Suburban or Rural environment? What advantages or disadvantages do you think you have due to your living environment?

2007-12-13 06:39:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-13 06:05:50 · 13 answers · asked by sunny t 2

Questions about the other gender get lots of anger. What about your own gender needs to be changed, improved, worked on? Be honest and fair.

2007-12-13 04:43:32 · 7 answers · asked by Steve C 7

2007-12-13 04:33:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

good or bad .. both are fine

2007-12-13 03:18:59 · 13 answers · asked by fedor_fan 2

i have been married for 3 mnths to a wonderful man that is very sensitive to my feelings. the problem is i enjoy anal sex occasionally, and he is totally against it. i think its just because he's afraid to hurt me, but i cant get him to understand that I DO ENJOY it. what can i do to make him understand, and make him comfortable with this situation and enjoy it as much as i do?

2007-12-13 02:25:26 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-13 02:21:15 · 26 answers · asked by Fancy You 6

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2007-12-13 02:07:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'll admit that i've been under some stress lately and a phase of extreme low confidence. i went and talked to my teacher about it, she said i should go the school counsellor, but i haven't been able to talk to her yet because my exams have been going on.
today, i was feeling like crying really bad although i wasn't feeling sad at all. i couldn't understand it, and then suddenly i just cut my hair. it looks a bit weird and short, but it doesn't really bother me.
i don't know how i should tell my mother. she is going to go insane when she realizes, so far i have been wearing a cap. also, she doesn't know i've been talking to my teacher about my problems, because i know that she'd feel bad about me talking to strangers about personal family stuff and the fact that i went to a teacher rather than going to her.
I am not sure what to do. please help me. i need to tell her in a manner that she doesn't shout at me, because i wouldn't be able to take it if she does.

2007-12-13 01:36:47 · 6 answers · asked by ornatedreamz 2

Why?

2007-12-13 00:24:58 · 21 answers · asked by gone 6