Other - Family & Relationships - 13 April 2007

Ok...here is the situation. Im divorced...have been so for about 2 years. I have three kids that i ADORE. They make me feel alive. They are great! I have a good job and i do love what i do for a living, and though my ex does take a large chunk out of my paycheck, id consider myself well off. My divorce had allot to do with one incident in my life that has shaped my destiny for the past few years. My ex told me that she would never have sex with me untill i had a vacectomy. And it came down to either doing it or saying goodbye. There were many fights over this and then i just said to myself, just do it. After i did, my ex told me she didnt want me sexualy and only wanted me to do that so that i wouldnt put our kids last once we divorced and i had kids with someone else. I was devistated and we split.

My question....are there any women out there who would find a 39 year old guy, who has had a vacectomy, has three kids and is looking for..well..love?

2007-04-13 09:32:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is only 18 and he has lost it. h has never had good sex and he tends to get bored of things fast when they no longer interest him. so now he is competely hormone less. so what do u think normal or not?

2007-04-13 09:18:39 · 10 answers · asked by Alycee C 2

Can you live without sex ?
let say you still love your spouse but no sex because of the medical reason.
would you rather still stay with your spouse for the rest of your life with zero sex?

for me sex is not the most important part of the marriage life but sex is "one" of the important in marriage.
however every person has defferent point view in marriage life.

2007-04-13 08:54:21 · 16 answers · asked by confusegirl 1

People do not like me generally, people do not like listening to me , people think i am self-obsessed, i am always wallowing in self-pity. I am good at getting blocked off by other people, i am really lazy and everything possible way and i can never get out of my own bad habits and cant stop comparing my self to other people.
Any suggestions in how to be a well-liked person.

2007-04-13 08:51:20 · 9 answers · asked by silly 1

Hi there, is it okay that my mom sneak on to my wallet? She has only one intention if she could find out any pictures of a man if i have a boyfriend or none. Eventhough this may give her an answer, is this still alright without me knowing? I'll just find out that she look over my wallet when she ask me about the man on the pic. Oh im at the right age but i wasnt that comfy to tell them that i have a boyfriend and i dont like to explain anything or argue....thanks a lot!

2007-04-13 08:39:40 · 3 answers · asked by cy928grace 1

you guys when you think of women what do you think of???

2007-04-13 08:06:07 · 3 answers · asked by coco 2

I have a distant cousin (once removed) who is in the "Big House" right now.

My Mom doesn't feel enthusiastic about writing to him. But I would like to. My Mom knows him better than I, to be honest. Evidently, this cousin really mistreated his father (my recently departed great uncle) when he was younger. He is in jail now, for reasons I know not.

As a family member and a Christian man, I would like to write to this cousin of mine and try to encourage him. I want to help him, if I can. I want him to understand that he can change, and that there is hope for a better tomorrow. I know that there is potential there for him. I do not know if he is saved. I believe that he isn't, though I have no evidence to unfairly assume this.

I know that he has done drugs in the past. Pardon the cliche, but indeed, we all make mistakes.

What would you suggest I say to him? He feels lonely, and he needs someone to write to him. As I said before, I want to help him, provided that I can do so.

2007-04-13 07:10:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a young doctor, so I know he is exhausted everynight he comes home. Before my husband used to be the one that initiates sex, but now I'm usually the one thats initiating sex.....I'm tired too.....I'm spend my days at home with our 3 children....and I'm only 28. I still want to enjoy myself at night. What ways can I get my husband back in hte mood? I want serious answers to this question please.

2007-04-13 07:08:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many times SHOULD a woman have an orgasm for each session? When my wife have her orgasm, she will "withdraw" from the whole action, leaving me hanging...

I heard that many woman have multiple orgasms, but why is my wife satisfied with only one per session?

Does anyone else feel one is enough each time? I have no other experience other than with my wife. Help!

2007-04-13 06:26:07 · 14 answers · asked by Gilamonster 4

My partner and I are on shaky grounds and shes showing me signs that she doesnt really care ,but that she loves...Im so confused!!

2007-04-13 06:21:09 · 3 answers · asked by link9clarissa 1

2007-04-13 06:20:13 · 3 answers · asked by BU 1

last week my bf and i went out on a date and i went back to his place after .one thing led to another and before i knew it we were having sex .only thing was his parents were supposed to be out of town for a few days turned out they came home early and his mom walked right in on us doing it. i am so embarressed i don't think i could ever face her again.
what should i do

2007-04-13 05:29:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

we broken out maybe one month he just left me and b4 yesterday he came to asked me second chance i was wanted he come back to me also i loved him and gave him second chance but 2day i called him no answer all day like b4 nothing change mother **** i am his toy why he did like this to me 1st he came to me now he didnt answer nothing what i have to do? but i love him so much we had long relitionship i dont understand nothing maybe i did misteken to give him chance i taught he already changed and show me more love but he didnt whats goin on around me help me guys what i have to do?

2007-04-13 05:27:15 · 2 answers · asked by namuun g 1

2007-04-13 02:56:49 · 12 answers · asked by Mel 1

I am, my husbands not.

2007-04-13 02:53:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am an athlete and spend hours working out... My girlfriend is slightly overweight and is not willing to lift a finger. Hiding ice-cream and chips did not work... So I bought this new state-of-the-art treadmill and she would not touch it. I am about to lose every hope of ever getting her in shape. Time for a new girlfriend or is there any way to fix this problem?!

2007-04-13 02:33:20 · 11 answers · asked by Rona9 2

firstly ,i am very happy i will marry a man who is 20 years older than me ,i am 24 ,and he looks like 33 or 34 in dress or act. i do think it is good for me to choose a man mature in age and active in phisical ....and i am not look for his money(he is not rich ,haha) and just want to give advise any girl like me: nothing is impossible only love exsit

2007-04-13 01:56:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

as you guys know i like my friend i have come to the conclusion that i will tell him
the problem is that i don't know how to tell him
what steps did you take or what steps would you take to tell him that you like him/her but you can't forget that this person is your friend. If your thinking i'm to young the problem is there has been roumers going around about he likeing me or we are dating but wer not its just the influence of my school are school goes a bit to fast and ervery one haves someone i'm not saying that i vrely wont someone its just i dont know how to tell him(I'm sorry of my grammer i was in german school till
4th grade and now i'm in 6th grade) Oh and all his friends are
all my friends i don't hang around girls i only hang around boys b/c there nicer to me i'm just not like the other girls in my school

2007-04-13 01:56:01 · 2 answers · asked by cool cat 1

JESUS CHRIST is the only way to heaven, you can not be good enough, it is by HIS grace, HIS empowerment, HIS mercy and love that we sinners are accepted by GOD.

This is about a relationship with JESUS or KING, LORD and SAVIOR that will last an eternity, so yes it is in the right place.


If you do not know JESUS and would like to please email me at forhisglory2all@yahoo.com

2007-04-13 01:46:42 · 6 answers · asked by Carl H 1

2007-04-13 01:19:09 · 24 answers · asked by stockytommy 2

2007-04-13 00:42:12 · 22 answers · asked by Matthew M 1