last week my bf and i went out on a date and i went back to his place after .one thing led to another and before i knew it we were having sex .only thing was his parents were supposed to be out of town for a few days turned out they came home early and his mom walked right in on us doing it. i am so embarressed i don't think i could ever face her again.
what should i do
2007-04-13 05:29:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends on her personality and your relationship with her. If she is someone you think you could talk to, call her up or sit down with her alone and tell her how dissapointed she must be. Assure her that you are responsible, use condoms, etc...and that you wouldn't have sex with her son unless you loved him. Show maturity and open mindedness. Good luck...that's tough luck!
2007-04-13 05:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were to ever get married and conceiver a child, she'd be so happy wouldn't she?
She was probably embarresed too, cause I've walked in on someone before, and I felt I couldn't look at them.
And she can't be a hypocrite, I'm sure she did it at your age..I'm guessing you're 16...or whatever.
But she conceived him..so she must have done it, therefore she can't judge you!
Just act normal next time you see her..and if she asks which she wont, simply say, "You know hoe things can get out of hand.." etc. etc. Tell her you're sorry it happend in her house if you want to, but after all, it's not disrespectful, becasue your boyfriend may do it at your house too...which is worse? Neither.
xx
2007-04-13 05:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you were having sex before you were married is wrong. However you have done it and you can't change that. I suggest going to his mother and apologising to her for having sex. If she accepts you apology then don't just think you can go off and do it again. Respect others even if they are not in your relationship. If she doesnt accpet your apology then you should try and do things that will get you back into her good books. If she is a decent woman then forgiveness should be no problem.
2007-04-13 05:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by W_O_W J_D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your bf if she has said anything about it and unless she is going off the deep end about it, go talk to her. You need to let her tell you how she views the whole thing and hear what she says. She may be okay and just ask that you never do it in her home again, or she may call you a tramp and ask you to never come into her home again. At least you will know where she stands and go from there.
2007-04-13 05:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that happened to me once, and yes It's very embarrassing, but the next day i had to have Breakfast with them, couldn't even look them in the eye, and as soon as Breakfast were over i got the hell out of there, never ever looked at them again, i would always tell him to come over to my house to see me, because i knew when ever they see me that's what they will be thinking about, and that's been 5 years ago, and to this day i still can't face them, doesn't know if I'll ever get over it....lol
2007-04-13 05:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are you and your bf?I'm not sure if i can really tell you what to do but i can tell you what happened to me once before.My parents were out for the eve and were supposed to be gone til the bar closed-they really liked to drink-so my bf came over and we were right in the middle of having sex on my parent's couch and they came home only after an hour after they left.My bf jumped up threw his clothes on and ran out the front door w/o saying a word to me or anyone.it took a while for him to come back -i had to go to his house but he started coming around again and my mom had a really long talk with him and it was cool after that.i know how you feel though it's embarassing
2007-04-13 05:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by littleb7503 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there are no regrets between you and your Bf then talk to his mom, its like hes a growing boy and it is a life experience she cant really keep him under a rock and she will know it is at your age so just talk to her she will see you more as a good person
2007-04-13 06:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by NightShroud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that you're not like, 12, things happen. Sucks that you got caught and I hate to break it to you, but she's never going to forget it. Most mom's don't exactly like their son's gf's anyways, so if that makes you feel better...anyways, if you feel really bad about it, apologize about the fact that it happened (just don't say that you're sorry she walked in on it!), and next time, lock the door or do it elsewhere! Lol.
2007-04-13 05:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by yeah, i said it. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow don't know what to say. this is bad very bad. not the end of the world bad but embarrassing bad. apologize tell the parents your sorry for disrespecting their home and that it won't happen again. if they keep a close eye on you from now on, that's expected.
2007-04-13 05:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did your boyfriend say to you about his parents' response to catching you having sex? I'm sure they talked to him about it.
Next time you see her tell her you are incredibly embarassed and are a bit uncomfortable right now. If she isn't upset about it, she will try to put you at ease.
Don't worry - you'll live and this will be something you'll laugh about later.
2007-04-13 05:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋