Other - Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

My ex fiancee died this morning from cancer. We were engaged a few years back but because of things he has done pyschologically, I left him. For years, I hated the man for what he done. It even effected my relationship with my boyfriend. Though I love him dearly, I wasn't able to really give my all to him because of the past.

The last couple of months, my ex and I kept in contact to see how are we. He was planning on marrying his girlfriend but then he found out that he had terminal cancer. I saw him last week and we talked and had made peace with the past. Then he fell very ill and the last conversation we had (which was last night), he told me he was sorry for everything he's done. And I finally forgave him.

But it's still very hard to cope with this. His death also is a way to bury everything that happened and it's very overwhelming. I wondered how did you cope with someone you shared for a couple of years died? I may not be his fiancee, but I cared for him too.

2007-02-02 12:08:51 · 1 answers · asked by RDC 2

blue. The week before he was fine and laughing and the week he broke up with me, he didn't seem like himself. He said he needed "his space." I don't understand if we only saw eachother at school and I was so good to him. On New Years eve he called and wanted to see me. We talked in his car and made out. He said the next day we were gonna be back together. He just totally ignored me and now he rarely calls. What's up with him?? I was so heart broken and I still am but I'm slowly starting to get over him.

2007-02-02 12:05:04 · 4 answers · asked by Danielle J 1

help

2007-02-02 12:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 33 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. My husband got laid off in late November and since has been trying to run his own business. I tried to explain that to run your own business, you need money to start with (which we don't have), and the part that upsets me the most is that he didn't even talk to me about it before making this decision. So since December 1st he has been trying to run this business and this is our financial state as of now. We still owe $400 towards last months rent, and now this months rent. We owe $150 for gas, $75 for cable, $100 for utilities and we haven't even gotten the bills for this month yet. We don't even have a crib or car seat for the baby. He leaves for the day at 9-10a.m. and comes home at 11p.m.-3:00a.m. He works every day (except Sundays, which is supposed to be "our" day, but he usually works then too), so I rarely see him. I want him to get a regular job again, but he says that after this business takes off he'll be making more.

2007-02-02 11:43:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-02 11:42:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Were engaged. He is a wonderful father and even a great guy but I have fallen out of love with him. Our son is one and I cant even think of taking him away from his father but I dont feel the love I once had for him. My fiance is totally in love with me still. So i guess my question is: Should I stay with a man I dont love just so my child has a healthy upbringing with two parents in the same house?

2007-02-02 11:36:31 · 21 answers · asked by Jenny Penny 1

2007-02-02 11:35:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-02 11:29:26 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa 2

is it your current partner or a previous one

2007-02-02 11:27:09 · 10 answers · asked by leonard24seven 4

am so shy its painful.I have few friends and never had a serious boyfriend and i am 20 years old. I should be having the time of my life. I go to community college and have had one person after a presentation actually tell me "wow thats the first time I heard you talk" I dont like being shy because I feel invisible to people and to some I think I am. Guys seem to get frustrated because getting to know me and get me to come out of my shell is like pulling teeth. Its not that I am ugly, but I am not great looking. I've been told I am cute and people who know me love my personality. I just feel like my shyness is holding me back and I want to get over it but how?

2007-02-02 11:18:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a girl she never had her pereoid can she still have a baby yes or no ill give you 10 points if you can tell me why or why not and tell me if she can have a baby if haing sex and still never had her pereiod and she is 13

2007-02-02 11:04:47 · 10 answers · asked by ivorie 1

Im trying to get my ex to leave me alone and I cant seem to lose him..i need help badly on this....thank you

2007-02-02 10:50:52 · 8 answers · asked by Dee T 2

2007-02-02 10:48:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-02 10:09:20 · 16 answers · asked by sparklel21 2

Mom is 92 and living alone in a not so great area. She had a fall and a hip fracture 4 months ago & since that seems to be going downhill faster. She has been misplacing large amounts of cash and has a "just so-so" attitude like "oh well I'll get more next month". She doesn't make a meal for herself and cannot bathe in her home. I have noticed an odor on a few occasions. She also walks with a walker. Her day consists of word books and solitaire. She doesn't seem to watch t.v. and understand it very well. I took her home to Tn with me after the recuperation from fall expecting her to live with me but she was so depressed I had to bring her back for fear she would be sick. I don't think she can make a decision for the well being of herself. I want to find her a facility but I doubt she will go willingly. What steps do we take to get her into one. My husband of 35 years is her power of attorney who can make decisions when she can't. Is this all we need to place her?

2007-02-02 09:43:26 · 4 answers · asked by ladylou 3

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2007-02-02 09:19:04 · 5 answers · asked by Lita fedrick 1

would you rather be with a man that is or isnt? which do you think is better?

2007-02-02 09:09:57 · 17 answers · asked by lawson403 2

2007-02-02 08:59:39 · 4 answers · asked by jay t 1

between 11-12yrs in the state of Texas be vaccinated against HPV from 2008.
There is evidence that he has ties with the Merc Phamaceutecal company that produces this drug. Isn't it a crying shame when politicians begin to put their own selfish, selfcentered, self profiting greed ahead of the best interest of the people that they are supposed to protect and serve. What do you think of this and where do you think this kind of gorvanance is heading to?

2007-02-02 08:50:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-02 08:39:01 · 16 answers · asked by prettylady 2

Hello,

I wanted to know if anyone can give me some ideas on how win over my boyfriend's parents. He's indian and I'm hispanic (dominican). We have been dating for three years and we love each other and want to get marry. I'm a little scare that his parents won't accept that and don't know what to do. Any one have any ideas on what I can do to win them over????

Thanks a bunch!

2007-02-02 08:36:33 · 14 answers · asked by buttercup 1

2007-02-02 08:32:37 · 10 answers · asked by kicker 1

Marcia Savary Taylor 39. last known to be in Conover, N.C

2007-02-02 08:32:12 · 1 answers · asked by JOY T 1

2007-02-02 08:31:28 · 14 answers · asked by illwilll1989 1

6 months after we had our son he left me for another girl. we never got along it was only cause our son we stayed together as long as we did. he treated me llike **** & has for the last year hes done so much to hurt me & doesnt make the effort to see his son. i really am fed up & want him out of my lfe cause im unhapppy with him in it our sons better off too. i have told him to leave us alone & havnt heard ffom him in a month. but i keep dremqaing of him & sometimes his girlfriend. there mostly about us getting along & still having feelings for eachother, is it because we have a child together i cant let him go. i have this soft spot fpr him that makes me feel sorry for him & i always give into him i know i care for him. but i just want ti let him go & move on with my lfe. please help...

2007-02-02 08:15:41 · 5 answers · asked by tambat 2

My x g/f and I broke about 3 weeks ago,because she found out that I had cheated on her before she got pregnant in November. We had a miscarriage and she moved out of my house and home with her parents.Last week she came down to finish up some school stuff and she lied to her parents and brother and stayed at my house.After they repeatedly told her not to see me.We went out to dinner and she held my hand in the car and we had a great talk about everything that had happened.She let me grab her *** and hug her, kiss her neck, and cuddleup on my love chair next to her.No sex and no lip kisses.She tells me all the time we are not getting back together.I told her how much I love her and that I am sorry for being a bad person.I am trying to work on being a better man for her. If she doesn't want to get back together then why does she call me all the time,we talk for hours at a time almost every night.Why did she come down and let me get close to her again?What does she want?is there a chnc?

2007-02-02 08:10:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's your happiest ever memory to do with your loved one?

Also, what would you do to make your loved one truly happy?

♥

2007-02-02 08:09:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do most men and women sit on Yahoo Answers and ask questions about how to deal with their significate other - whether it's boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife, gay lovers, instead of talking to the person that they are involved with in the first place?

Just curious?

2007-02-02 08:08:45 · 5 answers · asked by Katie N 2

just wondering if anyone else has this feeling!! its mad!! if u read this "Mr A F" do u get what i mean??

2007-02-02 08:03:26 · 11 answers · asked by trout 2

my city is very boring all we can do is go to school, the mall or hang out over each others houses
what are some free are imexpensive events or activities that my friend can go? thanks a bunch!

2007-02-02 08:03:20 · 1 answers · asked by ^MomentaryInsanity^ 3