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My x g/f and I broke about 3 weeks ago,because she found out that I had cheated on her before she got pregnant in November. We had a miscarriage and she moved out of my house and home with her parents.Last week she came down to finish up some school stuff and she lied to her parents and brother and stayed at my house.After they repeatedly told her not to see me.We went out to dinner and she held my hand in the car and we had a great talk about everything that had happened.She let me grab her *** and hug her, kiss her neck, and cuddleup on my love chair next to her.No sex and no lip kisses.She tells me all the time we are not getting back together.I told her how much I love her and that I am sorry for being a bad person.I am trying to work on being a better man for her. If she doesn't want to get back together then why does she call me all the time,we talk for hours at a time almost every night.Why did she come down and let me get close to her again?What does she want?is there a chnc?

2007-02-02 08:10:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

7 answers

Okay so you must not have liked the answers you got the first time you posted this question. My answer remains the same. Leave her alone.

2007-02-02 08:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

There is a chance. It will require a lot of work and grovelling on your part. You have to rebuild the trust you lost. It may take a very long time, but from this point forward you have to be brutally honest with her. Tell her your feelings, what you hope to achieve out of the relationship and ask her what she needs to trust you again. If after time she continues to tell you there is not chance you just have to explain to her that the friendship is to painful. That you want more and if she doesn't that you have to walk away for your own sake. It sounds like you recognize your mistake and want to make up for it. Make her see that and you may have a chance. Good Luck to you!!

2007-02-02 08:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 4 · 0 0

From my own experience, as a girl with strict parents..I went through the same thing. When you have your parents influencing your decision, it is really hard to figure out what YOU want. I used to run to my mom whenever my bf (now husband) screwed up, and it just dug him a hole. My parents only saw the bad in him and not the good. Have you ever thought if you can fix things with her, writting her parents a letter flaunting your good flaws and how you love her? I dunno if this is help but also it does take time to heal when you other cheats, trust me. But she needs to understand people make mistakes and people grow from these mistakes. I wouldn't stop. My husband didn't stop, now we are married with a baby on the way and he even worked on his relationship with my parents and it helped ours! But trust me, her decision probably is being altered by her parents worry about you hurting her.

So try to convince her your sorry and get on that letter! GOOD LUCK!!!!

2007-02-02 08:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by alexandra82387 2 · 0 0

It sounds like she still cares for you, but she's scared that you'll cheat on her again. Telling her that it won't happen again isn't enough. You need to prove that you've changed. Three weeks isn't much time. She's probably going to need a lot of time to completely forgive you, IF she does.

2007-02-02 08:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by johnsredgloves 5 · 0 0

Sounds like her parents are a big influence in her life,but it also sounds like she wants to be with you.if you really do love her hang in there and make sure you change those (cheating) ways. you obviously mean alot to her to that is a good start. i think you need to prove yourself. don't wait for ever though or she may think she can treat you how ever she likes and you will still be there.

2007-02-02 08:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

because women are crazy!

i'm sure your woman still has feelings for you. not sure how long you guys have been dating, but just because you aren't together with someone doesn't mean they automatically stop caring/loving you. having said that... you just gotta hope and pray that she'll give you another shot. when she does call you and stuff... make the most of it and SHOW her how you've changed... don't just tell her that you've changed. actions speak much more volume than words. good luck dude!

2007-02-02 08:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just leave it alone
move one.
I think she up too something
and she knows she can reile on you for anything
tell her you dont want to talk too her no more
and you want too move on.

2007-02-02 08:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Tina L 1 · 0 0

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