6 months after we had our son he left me for another girl. we never got along it was only cause our son we stayed together as long as we did. he treated me llike **** & has for the last year hes done so much to hurt me & doesnt make the effort to see his son. i really am fed up & want him out of my lfe cause im unhapppy with him in it our sons better off too. i have told him to leave us alone & havnt heard ffom him in a month. but i keep dremqaing of him & sometimes his girlfriend. there mostly about us getting along & still having feelings for eachother, is it because we have a child together i cant let him go. i have this soft spot fpr him that makes me feel sorry for him & i always give into him i know i care for him. but i just want ti let him go & move on with my lfe. please help...
2007-02-02 08:15:41 · 5 answers · asked by tambat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is very common for people to dream about ex-partners. Individuals that have been an important part of our lives continue to take up a part of our mind and heart. It is impossible to very dramatically shut the person out of thoughts and feelings. Just because the relationship ends does not mean that all is finished. As we go through relationships we learn and at times pick up "battle wounds." You will continue to dream about your ex boyfriend until you "let go" of him on a very important level, or until you learned your lessons from that relationship. Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues.
2007-02-05 12:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this kind of men forget it , he just no responsible at all , after ride on u , all the pains n tears is on u, forget him, find a man that will make u happy , ur still young u have ur own beauty , u can find more than him , if he will come back and ask forgiveness , forgive him , but dont ever ever let him climb on u , or else make u pregnant and make u cry again, go and find a new life , there are many fish in the sea , get the big fish
2007-02-02 08:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be naive. He develop into out cheating on you the evening he did no longer come abode. of course he will in no way help you be attentive to this because of the certainty he's blaming you for cheating your self and you admitted it, that way that is all your fault for the brake up. And particular I even have been threw this until now. they're going to de nigh, de nigh, de nigh. until at last you particularly locate out for particular and throw it in his face. of direction that may no longer until at last in case you finally end up making a *** out of your self for each and all the for supply me crap! as far because of the fact the youngster is going flow on and locate your self an excellent guy. If this guy desires to work out his baby he gets visitation rights.
2016-11-02 03:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that you hate him?
It seems to me that perhaps you have some unresolved feelings about him. Finding a way to communicate (without all the conflict), or to at least honestly explore your feelings about him, might help.
2007-02-02 08:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by ms_lain_iwakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to right his name on a peace of paper and freeze it in your freezer... its a chinese myth that youll 4get bout him...OR just tell him how you feel, or make up somethin saying that u need to spend more time together for the kids sake.
2007-02-02 08:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by divaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋