So, i'm 23 and from England. When I was 19 I met this Russian girl for a first date, we went out
and i found out she had a boyfriend (who was 32 and living in russia, but we hung out as friends...
it went great though, we hung out for a few hours at the marina, i dropped her home, then i called
her a few minutes later to see if she wanted to do anything else, she invited me in, we stayed up
til 8am talking then she went to uni, i went home... 3 days later we hung out again, and we stayed
together for about 2 weeks... After the first 4 days we did sleep together, but then we didn't again,
she said she just wanted to be friends and we stayed together, then she had to move out, whilst she
was taking summer exams, I looked for a new appartment, which she instantly accepted and still lives
in the appartment i picked out for her, after these 2 weeks she was going home for a couple of months
to russia, her BF had been in hospital (sick... i dont know why - he was depressed alot apparently)...
During this time, I Missed her like crazy, the day after she went, she called me to see if I was good,
not being able to take my town anymore, I took the opportunity to travel to the USA, i was there for
3 months... during this time we spoke a little, I sent her an email telling her how much i felt and
that i couldn't forget about her... then 3 months passed and i came home... i actually had her key to
her appartment because she let me use it when she went to russia so we had to meet up on the day she
came back to the UK so i could give it to her... when i met her, she was with an older friend, at
first i thought it was her BF, but it was a friend of his, i gave her the key, we drunk coffee, I left...
A few days later we met up, at our favourite restuarant, she told me how when she went back, she had
called her boyfriend my name, he got upset and forbid her from seeing me when she came back.. literally
we'd meet up a few days every month and he'd always be calling her and stressing her out, she would break
down, it was pretty hard on her, and hard on me too. We saw eachother a few times, I took her on a trip
to see my old town, she loved it, she had said she loved me once before... it was sorta unspoken and
unshown between the two of us... her BF wouldn't let us hang out, he said, she could leave him for anyone
as long as it wasn't me... Anyway she thought about leaving him, I thought she would, I went back to america
for 3 months when she went away for christmas, the next time I spoke to her, she was getting married, and
she did... I saw her once after those 3 months... saw her wedding photos, she seemed unhappy, we hugged
and I left. I don't think we've spoken since, she spoke so fondly of me.. I just don't understand why
things happened like this... it's been 3 years since i first met her.. and a year and a half since i last saw
her, i can't get her out of my mind, i've dated 40 girls, had 3 relationships.. ugh... any advice?
2006-06-06
15:13:11
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David A
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