her name is becky and we talk a lot on phone although she is not virgin but she love boys a lot and going party and drunk and having sex with different boys. her life was hard and she dont have place to go and she live in foster care house. my girlfriend live with her ex fiance and fiance ex bf brother. becky hate school and have nothing to do on her life but i promise her to take care of her and try to abuse him by drugs and she like to cut her self with scissor and we have been together for the last 5 months and we live in different town.
am i dumb to stay up with her or am i just being played again and make me to believe wat she said to me that she love me and she was not.
2006-06-06 14:58:36 · 9 answers · asked by Tommy O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i don't get it. what do you mean she cheated online? are you her online boyfriend or did she cheat with someone else online? well, in any case, online or not, if you guys are in a relationship you should definitely talk to her about the cutting and drugs. let her know that is something that hurts you.. when you see her do those things. if she cheats there really isn't alot you can do unless you have proof. if you have proof of it, i think you should dump her. you deserve to be treated better.
2006-06-06 15:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by Cupid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea yet on the different hand she wont even refer to him and is not any longer taking note of the little ones. Im no longer conserving destroy up now, yet possibly separation is your in straightforward words selection. She of route is pleasant some type of void in her existence (appearing out, doing issues she not in any respect executed or hasn't executed in a lengthy time period). I agree that you need to target to consult her, yet when she isn't listening supply her an ultimatum. She needs to understand she is a grown women those who has a kin. Is she fairly prepared to throw that away for some guy she in basic terms met? Its both him or you and the little ones. Its going to interrupt, yet leaving the little ones lower than the same roof with all that rigidity will harm more suitable. do not try this to them. possibly go away, take the little ones and go away for a week or 2, see if then shell communicate an search for counseling with you. Im sorry and robust success gavin.
2016-12-06 10:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has way too much baggage to deal with. Believe me there are a lot more fishes in the sea. Find someone who is more emotionally healthy. She is like that scissors. She's cutting you real bad.
2006-06-06 15:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will end up falling down be there 4 her as a friend becuz she isnt ready 4 a real relationship u cant take care of a woman if she isnt trying to help herself
2006-06-06 15:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Dopey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same problem my man was cheating on line he lied to me one day told me he was sick come to find out that same night he met this girl off line so he got caught of course told me he would never do it aging of coure he did i had to let him go once a cheater allways a cheater
2006-06-06 15:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let her go because she is going to drag you down to her level and you wont get anywhere because she needs to get her self into a clinic,let her go move on and be with someone who really loves you and find that special someone because you dont need a drug bag in your life
2006-06-06 15:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well If you really love her and care for her then have anice long talk with her telling you how you feel!!! but it seems she needs profesonal help from what i read! i hope she will get it and you will be there for her!! best of luck to you both!!
2006-06-06 15:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are her good qualities? because she has a lot of bad ones!
2006-06-06 15:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by NYC Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should stay with her. and if it continues, dump her
2006-06-06 15:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋