time flies..and no prince. I have been focused on other things. I still want to travel as I have finished my BA degree..but i am getting worried about my age and "settling down".
Should I be worried about this and really start hunting down a man; or should i travel and relax?
If i wait, i will only look older and older....honest answers please
Thanks !!
2006-06-06 15:10:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well....be concerned. Thing is men like younger women....so don't wait any longer. Look for a guy that also loves traveling and then u too can travel together!
good luck.
2006-06-06 15:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by James Patterson 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
No, I know lots of women who got married in their 40s to terrific guys. A lot of them married men who were 3-4 years younger than them. They weren't bothered that the women were older, they liked the woman's accomplishments and found them more interesting than younger women. If you want to keep a youthful look, wear sunscreen on your face, neck and hands every day whether or not you go out in the sun. The sun is the worst aging factor. All the NYC women know that secret and wear a 30 every day. This week's Newsweek had an article about marriage with the latest studies. Educated women marry later and are more likely to have the marriage last. Travel and relax. You may meet the man of your dreams in your travels.
2006-06-06 22:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by kadel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't be worried. Be happy. You will eventually get married at the right time. Remember that getting married early is not always good. Alot of marriages end becuase people didn't take enough time to get to know their spouse and thought getting married earlier and having kids was the thing to do. Being 32 does not make you old. Girl your still young and seem like you have alot going for you. The perfect man will come in time. Don't look for him he'll find you. Just continue to live your free life!
2006-06-06 22:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't start hunting a man - travel and relax - you'll be amazed who you meet when you travel, and you'll be amazed who is drawn to you when you're relaxed!
Don't worry about the age thing.....I'm 32 next Feb and I just got engaged, but I sure had to wade through a lot of muck to find my prince.
Don't worry - you'll find the right person, and when you do you'll have a lot to offer each other as you are more mature and know yourself better.
2006-06-06 22:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are not the reason that people get married. Look around, you will see plenty of weird looking, happily married people. You have plenty of time to get married, if that's what you want to do. Some folks prefer to stay single.
Take my word for it, It is better to wait for the right man, than to force things and find out that you are unhappy in a marriage.
You are young, and will have many happy years ahead of you, whether single or married. LOL
2006-06-06 22:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by niki-niki-tembo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me...as a nearly 23 year old maried woman with an 18 month old...enjoy your freedom. I love my my hubby and my child, but being a wife and a mommy is almost a death sentence to you personal ambition. I really wish I would have waited a little longer. I will be graduating this fall with my B.A. but I won't be able to study abroad because of my family. I know you feel like the clock is ticking...but it's important not to try to force things to happen. Just be open and God will show you the right one.
2006-06-06 22:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by danielle_la_flor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you look without looking desperately, just open your eyes. Also, the older you get, the more baggage you have, and your sig other. You will have to be more open to items that you may have been more picky on when you were younger. Make a list of things you like to do and then go where other people with those interests hang out. otherwise, you may rush into something not quite right for you and pay for it for years
2006-06-06 22:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by tabledanceman2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow. If you start to look you will end up finding someone totally wrong for you. If you wait, a good things will come your way. So let him find you throughout your travels even. Just keep your eyes open now.
2006-06-06 22:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by Shuggah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a hint, let the real girl shine through the daily routine with genuine confidence, excellent attitude, good grooming, good education, good choices, and faith. You shall be fine.
Thirty-two is a wonderful age for a woman if she's self-assured and paying attention to the REAL men that COUNT and NOT wasting time with the smartasses.
2006-06-06 22:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no hurry to get married the more you worry about it the older you'll look, not everyone needs a man apparantly you are one of those people, maybe you want children you can always adopt but i believe there is someone for everyone, relax you'll know him when he gets to you.but even if you dont find him people live full lives not having a mate.
2006-06-06 22:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't worry. They say the happiest men are married and the happiest women are single. Enjoy your singleness and take the opportunity to travel and develop your own interests. You might just meet your perfect mate in the process.
2006-06-06 22:13:17 · answer #11 · answered by sarandipitybabee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋