If u gotta ask doesn't that say enough in it's own!! I have seen this in several questions. I am just trying to find out why ask strangers what they think if u are already in doubt about a persons LOVE
2006-06-06 15:10:49 · 16 answers · asked by mrsmomma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because that's what is in THEIR head, people tend to think about others what they really mean about themselvs. when they say that , they are saying : do I really love him/her. it's their question and their thought about what they feel. byron katie has done some interesting work on this subject, I think her site is www.thework.com take a peek there it is really enlightening.
2006-06-06 15:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's about getting others (strangers) opinion other than friends to confirm what the asker is really feeling. Nothing wrong with that. Sometimes it also helps to get it out online by asking that kind of question and reading other people's answers.
2006-06-06 22:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by cool eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They ask because they want someone else to tell them that the person does or doesn't. They ask because they don't take the time out to figure it out themselves. People ask thinking that oh she is or he is my friend they will tell me.
In all actually most people who tell someone else about another person leaves out a lot of things. No one can tell you about your relationship with a person but you and the person that you are with. If you have to ask someone else, then you need to either look at yourself or look at them.
You will find your answer!!
2006-06-07 12:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, love is blind. It's easy for a female's feelings to get caught up, and when this happens, our brains become almost paralized. Therefore, we resort to askin' strangers their opinions, after giving them small details about our potential-lover, to see what their thoughts are. It's easy to be on the outside and looking in, cuz if you're on the inside tryin' to look out, you tend to only see what you want to see.
2006-06-06 22:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because love is one of the necessities of human being. And being loved and not used by you partner its something that makes you feel good, and important for some one else that may be you love aswell
2006-06-06 22:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by karlai a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good point. If they have to ask, then the answer is probably 'no.' Unless the person asking is just really insecure and needs to be assured.
2006-06-06 22:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the type of people that ask questions like that are not the full deck of cards take them with a grain of salt
2006-06-06 22:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what i want to know its hard to tell them if the person they talk about actually loves them because we aren't there to observe there relationship i guess you can say they need all the help they can get or its their first bf/gf or they are just bored...i dont know hope this helps ;)
2006-06-06 22:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by irene408729 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because deep down inside, they already know the answer..........They just want to hear a different answer
2006-06-06 22:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Spongebob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some are too shy to ask the someone in person, same with me
2006-06-06 22:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by markski037 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋