Okay, I love my niece, but she is early 20s and so is her husband. They don't think. For example, they have friends, who come by just to grab a soda, or have a snack, or grab a smoke, and they all are living at home or homesless.
Despite it all, they let them help themselves to their frig. Their friends are gone when the food runs out, then they tell everyone we have no food and no money. They have a 9 month old daughter, and another on the way. Despite it all, they have lied about everything, but now my niece is trying to change. I can tell she is making an attempt, but her husband works, and then comes home and plops down to a video game. He plays little with his daughter, except to throw her high in the air, and then catch her. I am surprised the kid has not had a heart attack.
But regardless my sister passed away and I want her child to do what is right. So what should I do to help her best? Step back and make her stand on her own? Tell her to lose the deadbeat friends?
2006-07-02
17:41:48
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