i hang out with a ton of guys but they all seem to be assholes....seriously...all of them do drugs, drink, and do the rudest thing to girl...i'm still in high school so i just want a guy and i can talk to and trust and he can be my best friend...i feel like all guys want is sex..its frustrating cuz i'm catholic so i'm not doin that til i'm married..i dont noe y i cant find any nie guys...
2006-07-02 18:45:14 · 6 answers · asked by GMK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know that cute shy guy, yup that's the right guy.
2006-07-02 18:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of finding the right guy involves timing -- it has to be the right time in both of your lives.
High school is absolutely not the right time to be looking for a serious relationship -- for exactly all of the behaviors you stated from the guys. They are not men yet and cannot help acting this way -- they still have to have the time to grow into mature men who can hand a serious relationship.
You also are not mature yet to know who you are, what you want and what kind of man you want -- you sound incredibly mature for a high schooler so don't take offense, nobody was ready in HS to make that kind of assessment about a man, much less if/when they should hand their bodies over to another person.
The best thing for you to do is focus on your own growth so that you can be a healthy, mature, accomplished, driven and informed woman going into your college years, so that you can grow more then and later in life (early 20s) you will be ready to start finding the "right ma"
You can experient with sex now, try the whole boyfriend thing, follow the other kids, but just now that when you do that you are taking the risk of working against your own future. You are not likely to get much positive results from sexual experimenting -- you will be called a slut, maybe get a venereal disease, end up fighting with some girl over the guy, end up thinking less of yourself, divert focus from your studies and personal accomplishments, set a bad example for aby siblings / friends and maybe even get pregnant and decide to either kill your first baby (which will haunt you for the rest of your life), or have the baby and give it u for adoption or raise it yourself as a pretty unfit mom....
Sounds like fun huh? But you really do need to think things all the way through, even if that is almost impossible to do at your age -- you just can't imagine that anything could happen.
So my advice, wait until YOU are the RIGHT WOMAN before you start thinking about finding the right guy.
Best of luck and I think you will be strong / smart and do the right thing!!
2006-07-03 20:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by Finnale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could probaly meet some nice guys at church, or you are just hanging out with the wrong guys.
2006-07-03 01:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to not want that. SOmetimes we are in situations because they serve some emotional need. Good Luck
2006-07-03 01:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest you will know when the right guy comes along
2006-07-03 01:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by writer41uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m a nice guy too. i really need a friend a like you. if you are interested. please mail me. my e-mail address is asifbenz@yahoo.com
2006-07-03 02:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋