Family & Relationships - 22 August 2006

I met this guy online, & we have been talking for 8 months. He is now in Afghanistan. We have been writing letters, emailing each other, sharing pictures, talking almost daily through IM, & he even calls me weekly. We have opened up, & shared some of deepest secrets. I do love him because I developed these feelings for him without sex complicating things. I am aware of people being different in person. I am also aware of the risk of what you see and feel could not really be there so I don't need anyone to tell me that. My question is do you think it's possible to fall in love with someone the way I did, & then get married? He comes home in 5 weeks, & no we are not getting married when he comes home I don't know when any of this is suppose to happen number 1 because I am not rushing into anything, and number 2 we know we need to get to know each other in person he just wants me to be his fiancé instead of is girlfriend while we do it due to the fact we have 8 months under our belts.

2006-08-22 12:17:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this girl at my school im a freshman in HIghschool who i want to know if she likes me! My friend said that he thought someone said that she liked me but i dont know? She always laughs at what i say but then again she laughs at wut almost ne body says. She danced with me at our school dance like 3 times but i asked her twice she asked me once. (she asked me first) all of her frineds ask me who i like..shes the only one who doesnt ask me!
i need answers!!

pce

2006-08-22 12:16:42 · 9 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 12:16:38 · 21 answers · asked by Robert W 1 in Family

2006-08-22 12:15:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because I really don't but my friend (male) says that women do.

2006-08-22 12:15:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When your at a night club and you see someone that interest you, do you go over there and talk to him or do you wait for him to come over and talk to you?

2006-08-22 12:13:31 · 33 answers · asked by Nicko912 3 in Singles & Dating

I am pregenant, the father and I are not together but get along just fine (neither of us want to be togeter). His 30th birthday is coming up. I wanted to get him something for his birthday (from the baby) any suggestions?

2006-08-22 12:13:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

you have a really good friend, and he has an ex, they are really good friends now, but he was really in love with her when they were together, and maybe your friend still likes her but he knows that he has no other chance with her, you really like this girl too, but before they were together you promised your friend you wouldnt make any moves on her, would you ask her out now that they broke up for almost 6 months or would you keep loyal to your friend?

2006-08-22 12:11:49 · 22 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

I am having the hardest time, getting my husband to listen to me! I can even make sure that I have his attention and tell him that it is very important and that I need him to listen, and still he does not hear a word that I say! He has no idea about anything that I say, he does not know my favorite color, my favorite movie, type of music I like, or anything personal like that about me! What would you do? I love my husband and want this relationship to get better! I have asked him what can I do to make him happy and he gets mad, what is a woman suppossed to do in this situation????
I really need some serious answers please! This is coming between us, Please help me!!!!!!!!!!

We have been together for 5 years and I am doing everything I can do to be a good wife and make him happy, but nothing seems to work! Help!!!

2006-08-22 12:11:34 · 23 answers · asked by iLoveDawnDawn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-22 12:10:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys

2006-08-22 12:10:06 · 17 answers · asked by lilshawrty27 1 in Friends

I am so freakin tired of all this crap I get stuck doing that it is driving me up the freakin wall. So has anyone else suffered this much today or is it just me?

2006-08-22 12:10:02 · 12 answers · asked by barbara_taylor17 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well me n this girl go to the same school, in the halls n classes we give each other those looks we smile at eachother, and she told me she liked me n she know i like her, but everytime i ask her if i could sit wit her in lunch she just doesnt say anything, is she shy, or whats the prob? + she younger n by the way i heard she soft

2006-08-22 12:09:39 · 22 answers · asked by ClickSubscribe 3 in Singles & Dating

Anybody know any other silly phrases parents come out with?

2006-08-22 12:09:09 · 36 answers · asked by Gray 3 in Family

im lez and i was about to go down on my girl, and she really wanted it. we were really into it so u kno i had 2 since she already went down on me...but i got down there and it was like omfg.....this is disgusting....ne ways i came up with a silly excuse and ran away.....what should i do

2006-08-22 12:07:14 · 22 answers · asked by Crystal J 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, I've never had a boyfriend and I'd never been kissed.
I went to Italy for 2 weeks this summer, while I was there one time in the subway, a random (but really cute!) guy kissed me, it was a tiny peck, he got off the subway too quickly for me to say anything so I just laughed.
The thing is that I don't know if I should consider it an actual kiss, since it wasn't with someone I even knew, lasted as long as a blink, and wasn't romantic at all.

what do you think?

2006-08-22 12:07:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 12:06:23 · 30 answers · asked by slamster77 2 in Singles & Dating

can both parents enter a written agreement that child support should stop as long as child is now with other parent? the current primary parent does not want to provide her new income infor now that she is a small business owner--what to do???

2006-08-22 12:06:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-22 12:05:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am going to tell my best frined I love him. I need to know the better way to do it.
(1) I pretend I am IMing my grandma or mom and pretend that when I said "l love you" it was a mix-up ment for one of my relatives. I would wait for a few minutes and wait for his response to see what it was.
(2) Just IM him saying " I hope this doesnt reck our friendship but if it does just forget it, I love you"
Which one would work better?

2006-08-22 12:04:50 · 33 answers · asked by cliderocker50 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to tell my best frined I love him. I need to know the better way to do it.
(1) I pretend I am IMing my grandma or mom and pretend that when I said "l love you" it was a mix-up ment for one of my relatives. I would wait for a few minutes and wait for his response to see what it was.
(2) Just IM him saying " I hope this doesnt reck our friendship but if it does just forget it, I love you"
Which one would work better?

2006-08-22 12:04:00 · 3 answers · asked by cliderocker50 2 in Friends

whenever she has a chance to talk to me she sounds all excited. she even asked me to swim with her once.
she is hot & I like her

2006-08-22 12:03:23 · 14 answers · asked by king cobra 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 12:02:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like him very bad but I don't think he will give me the time of day cause I think he likes skinny girl's and I'm not fat I'm between thik and fat so pretty PLEASE HELP ME

2006-08-22 12:02:25 · 7 answers · asked by thick&cute 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend wants me to say dirty things to him suring sex. But i have no idea what to say and im not very creative. Any body have any good ideas? And i dont want to say anything that will make me feel stupid. We are close and i dont think he would really care but i just dont know what to say!

2006-08-22 12:01:19 · 17 answers · asked by spinningfree06 1 in Singles & Dating

same age as me
has a boyfriend
we are friends
I love her
I want to talk to her

2006-08-22 12:01:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Friends

2006-08-22 12:00:58 · 10 answers · asked by TheSilence 1 in Singles & Dating

got into an argument that you ex started on purpose to intentionally hurt you. but then shot back every answer and more that would make (him,her) look totally stupid and to the point that they would feel cornered from thier own insults and qusetions. almost forcing (him,her) to back off.

2006-08-22 12:00:55 · 5 answers · asked by Scarlet5 2 in Singles & Dating

i HAVE REPEATEDLY ASKED THIS PERSON TO LEAVE ME ALONE, AND SHE JUST WONT STOP. HOW CAN I MAKE HER STOP. sHE CALLS ME HORRIBLE NAMES, BAD MOUTHS MY FAMILY, THREATENS ME. WHAT CAN i DO?

2006-08-22 11:59:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok. My boyfriend and i have the weirdest/ dirtiest conversations. We talk about jerking off, um shaving our privates, and liek everything more. Are we just weird or like is this normal conversations? just wondering thanks.

2006-08-22 11:59:35 · 19 answers · asked by rebekah u 5 in Singles & Dating