Going to tell my best friend I love him.?

Question

I am going to tell my best frined I love him. I need to know the better way to do it.
(1) I pretend I am IMing my grandma or mom and pretend that when I said "l love you" it was a mix-up ment for one of my relatives. I would wait for a few minutes and wait for his response to see what it was.
(2) Just IM him saying " I hope this doesnt reck our friendship but if it does just forget it, I love you"
Which one would work better?

Answer 1

I think it would be bast to do it in person, but you would probebly feel more comfortable over IM and I think the second one its defently better and probebly the perfect thing for you to say. if thats the way you feel you should let him know, and not pretent you are telling someone else, let him know you are telling him.

Answer 2

well i did this once. i had a crush on my best friend.
turns out he didnt want more. he married someone else now he is divorced.
iam married too.
he turned out to be stuck on himself and arrogant.
he also got pretty fat. he was so skinny. he didnt want me because i was 145 pds and not stick thin like a runway model.
his loss.
anyway, its a touchy thing, we kissed and actually didnt feel any sparks either.
before you marry a person, you need alot in common and to be best friends. it will last. sex etc want.lol.
ive been married 23 years!! but its cool.
just be honest. you have no choice.
there are several movies about it.
like {my best friend} .
you cant hold it in. but be prepared if it doesnt work.
but maybe it will. maybe they feel the same!!!
best of luck. write a letter or im. but if u are really brave do it face to face.
if you im, tell him if he feels the same way...to meet you so you can talk. if he doesnt show...he doesnt feel the same.
well take care. god bless.candy

Answer 3

How about over lunch and let him think about it.