well me n this girl go to the same school, in the halls n classes we give each other those looks we smile at eachother, and she told me she liked me n she know i like her, but everytime i ask her if i could sit wit her in lunch she just doesnt say anything, is she shy, or whats the prob? + she younger n by the way i heard she soft
2006-08-22 12:09:39 · 22 answers · asked by ClickSubscribe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just sit down by her and start talkingto her maybe you can break the ice for her
2006-08-22 12:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch her by herself and explain to her that you have some type of interest in her. Don't be too explicit with your info at first, but let her know that you at least think she's cute. Some girls, if in the in-crowd, are afraid to admit their feelings, same goes for those who are not (thinking they are not good enough). When in high school, I was in the "middle crowd." There was this "more popular boy" I liked who would approach me on an every - other - day basis, but I wouldn't give him a chance because he was too popular. On the other hand, there was another boy who would approach me, but I wasn't attracted to him, BUT if the ladies could see him 10 years later (now)...!!!
In other words, just take a chance. In a few years, if you are rejected or accepted, you will think, "At least I gave it a try." Either way it goes... a chance is all it takes and it really will not matter when you are older.
2006-08-22 19:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey listen,
believe it or not, us girls have probabbly all gone through that. She likes you, and you like her, but maybe she is scared that if she sais something wrong, or if she does something wrong, you wont like her. So What i think you should do, is you should let her come to you. Or you could talk to her, and see if she wantes to go to a movie. Maybe not yet as a date, but just as a friendly jesture. Like that she gets to know you, and she wont be shy, or not as talkative with you. She will know you, and it will be very easy, and youll have a better relationship with her, when that comes. So just see if she wants to go something sometime. And if she doesnt answer, maybe you should think it over, and let her come to you the next time. Like i said to someone before, age means nothing. My parents are like, 13 years different, and they love eachother dearly. So you know, age means nothing. So I already know that that is not the problem. Maybe she's just not ready to get into anything other than smiling at eachother until a while later. If she likes you, and from what i hear she does, that she wil lcome up to you. Trust me, and Trust her if you like her. If its meant to be that
it will happen. Trust it.
2006-08-22 19:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to BUBBL... Don't ask her, just do it. Sit next to her, and if she moves away, then most likely she doesn't like. If she stay around, talk to her. Make her feel comfortable by being calm and casual. Give her a complement once in a while, but not to much.
Ask her for her # or e-mail. Good luck.
Take away doubts.
2006-08-22 19:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by WWJD: What Would Joker Do? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just sit wit her in lunch. And talk to her..get to know her.. flirt wit her.. make her feel pretty when she wit u( compliment her!!) and then if u think that she likes you more than before.. ask her whats up wit u and her... and ask her out! ( in a really nice way)
2006-08-22 19:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by ::.+.::bubble-licious::.+.:: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's shy... you'll have to be careful putting the moves on her.
you don't want to get your nerve up, ask a girl out, have her say yes, and then flat out ignore you and never return your calls (happened to me). that is a highly awkward situation.
2006-08-22 19:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is shy ... try asking her if she would like to go somewhere after school that way not that many people will see and she can relax
2006-08-22 19:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the cig, learn how to spell and forget the tease and move on
2006-08-22 19:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by papabear098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is shy and u are gonna have to work it to make her feel confortable, and i think the only way to do it is to not presure and be cool with her and let her know u are still there liking her ..
2006-08-22 19:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by yety21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probibly a lttle shy if u really like her pull here to the side and ask her out
2006-08-22 19:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by spazzyelias 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋