I'm currently 18, and looking to settle down. There's just one problem: none of my boyfriends ever stay with me past a few months! I'm flustered, and tired of the same old advice. I know I'm young, but I'm truly ready to find the right guy... the one I'll marry after I finnish my degree. My problem is, I feel worthless if I don't have something to work towards... and I can't 'just do it for me' becasue something about that seems so selfish. Most of the guys I've brought home are not "presentable" as far as my family is concerned; yet, if I bring home one that IS, he typically treats me horribly. I am a very insecure person , that I will freely admit... somehow I feel a lot more secure in my environment when I have someone there for me who isn't 'a friend'. Aside from insecurity, I'm a very sweet, loving, compassionate, and forgiving person (one of my b/fs cheated on me 6 times... and I was the 1 who got dumped.) If someone could tell me what I am doing wrong, I would appreciate that
2006-07-29
18:31:25
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themaverickblonde
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