I think I like my colleague, he's a few years older & more senior than me. He had just broken up with his girlfriend. Sometimes I feel that he might just like me, cos he always hint that I should get myself a boyfriend. I said that I like cute guys, & he always jokes that he is a cute guy. He would also say that he also likes the music I listen to.
We are both natural jokers, and that makes me wonder if everything is just part of his joke.
It's hard to develop a relationship in the office esp. when we work directly with each other.
I think I'm too ugly & fat for him, as I think he's quite charming himself.
How do I find out if he really does like me?? I've thought of using the name of friendship to ask him out & hope to develop everything from there but he's got alot of dates to even accomodate me.
Please give me alot of advice.
2006-07-29 18:28:02 · 5 answers · asked by ahbahh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In actual fact I think you actually lack of confidence in yourself . Pick up your courage and tell him how you feel. This is the most direct way U can get an answer.
If he is willing to accept U as his gf, U have succeeded in the first step and the rest of the relationship is really dependant on both of u already.
Well, if his answer is no, at least U know tt he is treating U as a friend and U can start looking in other directions as well.
Sometimes it is better to take the initiatives than waiting for the other party to take the iniative coz once U lost him, it could be a permanent loss. Maybe U will regret why Y din tell him your feelings. Sometimes opportunity knocked only once and if you dun grab it, it will slip from your grip. All the best to U
2006-07-29 21:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 11⤊ 4⤋
It is real simple. Just ask him. If he is a good guy than he wont treat you any different if he says no and if he says yes than you win. I like my women strait foreword cuz I am terrible with hints. I think most of us guys are.
2006-07-29 18:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by minion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think u r too fat n ugly for him tat alone would put u off to even ask him out...get rid of tat low esteem n make urself more presentable n attractive..my dear u don't need great looks to attract someone ..be sincere n presentable and tat alone would do great wonders..
Good luck...
2006-07-29 18:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first u should get your self together low selesteem is a turn off then ask him if he says no then make him like u
2006-07-29 18:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something bold see his reaction if its good or funny he likes if is lke hes pretending it dint happen sorry
2006-07-29 18:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by doggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋