My husband and I have known each other 3 years, been married nearly 1. I'm 28, he's 36. When I first met him, he was a pastry chef but has since taken on a dining room manager position, which is fine and more money. He is always telling me to come up and eat at the restaurant, but I don't want to. My mom and I went one time just before we got married, and I felt uncomfortable. I don't want to be around his co-workers or have to go through constant introductions while there. He's been there over a year and has invited me to the company Christmas party, New Years Eve party, and always suggests my mom and I should come - but I always tell him no thanks. I don't want to bother him while he is at work. My mom says he is so proud of me and wants everybody to know who his wife is - but I'm a shy person and I don't like to put myself in that kind of limelight. Is it OK that I don't go? I think it's nice on my part that I leave him alone while he is working.
2006-07-17
03:03:51
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Rachel
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Marriage & Divorce