Am a girl of 20yrs of age, but i have naver had sex before, my friends alway says if i dont try it i will be a fool, is it truh pls help me am geting bored.
2006-07-17 03:00:54 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember, you can be like them in 5 minutes, but they can never be like you again.
Don't let anyone decide for you when the time is right.
Good luck.
2006-07-17 03:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
i kinda no wot sort ov situation ur in.. I lost my virginaty when i woz 20.. All my friends and everyone i knew lost it when they were like 15 or sumthin. Iv had loadza boyfriends so people just asumed i woz having sex.. It woznt because i woz waiting for mr.right it woz because 4 some reason i woz affraid 2 do it.. Thought it would hurt 2 much or id end up getting preg.. I lost it 2 some1 that doesnt actually no he woz my 1st, he woz a few years younger than me an i woz hes 2nd so i didnt feel under ny pressure to be fantastic like all lads think a 20yr old should be.. Hun u got plenty ov time 4 all that,dont be under pressure to do anything u dont want.. screw ya friends.. If they were real friends they wouldnt judge u 4 it...
2006-07-17 03:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this isn't true and I wonder if your friends are real friends because real friends love and respect you for who you are and don't want you to rush you into things you are not ready for or do not wish to do. your are not a fool if you haven't tried sex yet. it's foolish to have sex just to try it. it will mostly end in a disappointment. you should have sex with someone that you know well and that love, trust and respect so it will happen naturally and you will both enjoy it.
Don't let your friends tell you what to do. You yourself should know what is best for you. I know that pressure from friends is very hard because you want to fit in with them and don't feel left out but real friends would never tell you that you are a fool for not trying something. They would accept it and respect you for it and not try and force you into doing things you do not want.
Don't let them get to you.
Good luck. I'm thinking about you.
2006-07-17 03:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by aysha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a 20yrs without sex is not bad omen, it is called virtue.Wait for the right person to whom you will be married, and have your first experience with your husband, and it will be a life long bond of trust and faith. Find out some nice hobby for yourself, and take real interest in people so you will meet the right person, to have such a great relation.
2006-07-17 03:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by zahida367 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, dont be fooled wait, if you open that door right now you will regret it, it's easy to be like everyone esle, stand and fall into that trap and you will begin to see how God will bless you. Why share yourself with someone you are not married to. It ends in failure trust me God intended for sex to be good inside marriage. Aids, bad reps, and being talked about can come from having sex before your married. it's easy to be hoe or whore just lay on your back. I am not calling you one and that is a bibical term and its true. Have self respect for yourself look at the world aids and diseases are everywhere protection is there but look at the out come. People say us protection, all it takes is one time for the condom to bust or not rip and there lies the risk of aids pregnacy disease. Now at 20yrs of age do you want Aids do you want kids, do you want a disease. If a Guy loves you he will wait until you are married and keep his hands off you and will hel[p you keep your hands off him. Are you save Do you have a personal relationship with Jesus. You are a smart Young Lady for seeking advise, dont be fooled there is more to sex that a feeling. Please wait on God, change who you hang with allow God to bless you for more info email me be blessed
2006-07-17 03:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by The Truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex until you are ready. don;t ever let anyone push you into doing something with your body that you don't want to do. your body is the most precious thing you own. take care of it. being a virgin is an admirable trait. if it doesn't bother you then stay that way. you are much better off now then sleeping with some random guy just to get the job done. trust me, you would regret it later.
2006-07-17 03:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you'll be a fool, is if you get peer-pressured into having sex, with someone you don't truly care about. It shows a high amount of respect, to hold on to your virginity until the right person comes along.
I'm 20, I've only been with one person sexually, and that's my fiance.
2006-07-17 03:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex has been a trend among most teens when it should not be treated as that. It is a thing for couples inside holy matrimony (that if you have the same belief as mine). You see, people are getting worse because of individuals producing offsprings out of wedlock. It's a curse.
2006-07-17 03:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by SHEMH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. You don't need to have sex just to prove to our friends that you aren't a fool. I have two daughters 20 and 21 who are still virgins and they have boyfriends who respect that. You are old enough now to make your own decisions not those that your friends think are right for you.
2006-07-17 03:02:56 · answer #9 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all said that to me too and I was 18. I waited until I found someone I loved and I did and it made me feel good. But if I would have listened to everyone else I would have had ended up pregnant like they did and missed out on everything. Wait until you are ready.
2006-07-17 03:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 23 and I'm a virgin and no you won't be a fool. Just wait till that right time comes along for you and not other people. A lot of people I know wish they waited instead of being pressured into it.
2006-07-17 03:02:56 · answer #11 · answered by B.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋