Family & Relationships - 14 June 2006

I've been a waitress for a long time. Sometimes it was part-time as a 2nd job, and at other times, like now, it's full-time. I've always made great money, and I have gained the senority that allows me to basically pick and choose my shifts. I love it, it's just so much fun and there's not many other jobs that would allow me to work 3 nights a week and still make that kind of money. Plus it allows me time to take classes towards my master's and to devote to my hobbies. I know it's not prestigious, but honestly I have been through college and nursing school and the "normal" 8-5 career options just don't suit me! But every couple days my mom and grandmother clip job ads from the paper and insist that I apply. Most of them are menial office jobs that pay crap and are at least 40 hrs a week. I tell them, I'd be taking a pay cut for more hours and their response is, "But it would be a NORMAL job".
Is it really that BAD to be a waitress? Or can I tell them to bugger off!?!

2006-06-14 07:18:19 · 13 answers · asked by Frankie Baby 82 3 in Family

2006-06-14 07:17:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to ask a guy out, but I don't have the courage! What do I do? I mean I asked a couple of my friends and hes one of them to a movie but...how do i get him to be my boyfriend without getting totally scared?

2006-06-14 07:17:15 · 14 answers · asked by Becca E 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 20 and i want to know when a good age to get married is.

2006-06-14 07:17:03 · 12 answers · asked by Casey C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I were dating for about 4 years. This past sunday though we got into an argument that was different from any past argument. We argued for about 10 min- I confronted him to make things right and he just kept arguing and challenging me on everything I said. We lived with his mom for 1 year until we get our own place- in three weeks we wouldve been in it. Some say he was scared of the responsibility some say he just doesnt care. We recently purchased a new truck and since then hes been different. He said it was my attitude,he wasnt ready for the relationship.etc.What did it? His mom says we've been arguing a lot lately- but it was mostly about how she babied him and why he wouldnt step up.He says he loves me, misses me and cant sleep without me- but still we're done.He sends me text messages and everything. I went and got my stuff out of the room when he wasnt there. I left the engagment ring and house key on his pillow. I told him i was letting him go. He texted me I love u

2006-06-14 07:16:47 · 8 answers · asked by monetmanagement 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think if you have been separted for about 2 months and yoiu start seeing someone else is that cheating on your spouse even though you are not with that person but still in contact.

2006-06-14 07:16:42 · 9 answers · asked by Hero 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont mind most 10 year olds, cuz some are cool (some)

but i HATE 10 year olds and younger, who act tyounger than they really are!

2006-06-14 07:16:30 · 10 answers · asked by uhhhhhhhh 3 in Singles & Dating

Girls: True or False: Girls dont like her boyfriend to be caring about her so much?

2006-06-14 07:16:11 · 19 answers · asked by helix 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-14 07:15:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-06-14 07:15:47 · 15 answers · asked by Sunrise Otter 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-14 07:15:25 · 20 answers · asked by geminilady90044 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-14 07:15:21 · 11 answers · asked by dalton 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have no friends. It's hard for me to keep friends and I don't know why. The only friends I had when I was in high school was in the disabled area of the school. Why? I was unpopular okay but what's keeping me from meeting and making new friends that I actually like and like to hang out with? I'm not physically disabled or anything, just a little emotional because of past experiences. I meet people and i get tired of them, or they get tired of me? I don't know what now?

2006-06-14 07:14:52 · 8 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Friends

2006-06-14 07:14:41 · 3 answers · asked by funky.oo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi. I am doing a little survey of male/female couples that sleep in the same bed. Which of you sleeps on the left side and which of you sleeps on the right?

2006-06-14 07:13:58 · 19 answers · asked by buebla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Eirlier on i asked a question about a girl that i am in a relationship with and i found a condom in the toilet. i have had good response and i have asked her what was going on. She said that she got drunk and her friend asked her the next day if she was alright. My GF said y. her friend said that her drink got spiked and she didnt know what she was doing. She couldnt remember the night b4. she asked me to call her friend and ask. that kind of makes me believe her but im not sure. She told me who the bloke was cos she woke up the next morning and he was there. she kicked him out in his underwere. Shall i do anything about it?

2006-06-14 07:13:51 · 20 answers · asked by jamseyb 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-14 07:12:56 · 10 answers · asked by BigTyme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was a little horny and just fantasizing harmlessley and I ddint know my girlfiend came over and she was watching me and then
just left and slammed the door- what should I do now?

2006-06-14 07:12:52 · 14 answers · asked by guitarraveboy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I spoiled my girlfriend by buying her flowers and gifts all the time. Now I can do something romantic and it has no effect. She expects me to do all these things now.

2006-06-14 07:12:42 · 4 answers · asked by Justin L 1 in Singles & Dating

i especially hate 10-11 year olds who hang out with 7 year olds and act immature
why do i hate them?

2006-06-14 07:12:39 · 5 answers · asked by uhhhhhhhh 3 in Friends

u know r u on 1st, 2nd or 3rd base what do those really mean

2006-06-14 07:11:48 · 6 answers · asked by basbl_fan 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend recently asked me out and me and him have been going out to weeks now, it kinda feels strange cos iv looked at other blokes wen his liked me all along but me bein a stupid girl haha neva reliased, im well happy that were together but i just cant tell my mum that were together, i no she'd b fine about it she wanted us to get together! and nw we have each time i go to tell her i just cant.... im well embaressed but i dont no why pls help!!

2006-06-14 07:11:44 · 16 answers · asked by xxhayley10xx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-14 07:11:17 · 5 answers · asked by DeShonda B 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies have you ever had a boy to be with you for over a year now.And he tells you that he wants to marry and have kids with you.And he is the best boyfriend in the whole world to you?

2006-06-14 07:10:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-14 07:10:59 · 2 answers · asked by pulchritudinous 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-14 07:10:45 · 28 answers · asked by doubting damu 1 in Singles & Dating

I just posted a ? about this, my ex-bf of 3 years treated me like crap. We decided to let it go. Then I moved on to this wonderful man and he is so upset, depressed, can't eat, can't sleep and misses me. Wants to marry me. Said he will be 20x better than this guy I am dating. Why all of a sudden is there a change?

2006-06-14 07:10:44 · 14 answers · asked by TextnQueen 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-14 07:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-14 07:10:07 · 2 answers · asked by chosen_one2091 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always had a thing for firefighters. I would love to meet one to date but don't know how to meet one unless I pull the fire alarm in my building. Where do the firefighters hang out?

2006-06-14 07:09:00 · 7 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Singles & Dating