I want to ask a guy out, but I don't have the courage! What do I do? I mean I asked a couple of my friends and hes one of them to a movie but...how do i get him to be my boyfriend without getting totally scared?
2006-06-14 07:17:15 · 14 answers · asked by Becca E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do the right thing no matter how you feel...that's doing courage.
"You will miss 100% of the shots, you do not take."
Wayne Gretsky
Good luck!
2006-06-14 07:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you're in high school right? maybe middle school? Anyway I totally know how you feel, I was definately nervous when I ask a guy out that I wasn't sure about. It still happens to me today too, and I'm 21. It's a little easier now though cause I've gone through rejections enough to really not care what they say anymore. So my best advice to you is don't fear rejection. I know it'll be disappointing if he says no, but you don't want to find out when it's too late that he would of said yes had you asked him, but now you can't cause he's with someone else, or is moving away, or this or that. So take the risk, if he says no, cry it off and get over him, cause there's other people out there. but if he says yes, then great you just got yourself a boyfriend. Good luck!
2006-06-15 09:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.......You have to slowly ease into it. Dont just walk up to him.
Here are some examples.... When he walks by drop you pencil. But remember " You cant reach it" Ask him if he can pick it up. Then start talking to him. Ask like what kind of sports he is into or if you already no say that you like the sport too and that way he will be interested in you! Hope this helps!!
2006-06-14 14:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. I asked my fiance out. We were really good friends first, the kind where he would tell me about all of his past dates and stuff. So one day I just said, "I would like to see how you work, How about you take me out on a date one night" and he said sure. Now we are engaged.
Good Luck!
2006-06-14 14:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by lemonheads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get a guy to be your boyfriend if he isn't willing.
That said, see if he'll go on a date with you and another mutual couple.
2006-06-14 14:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUst ask him you might be suprised on how he'll responed and if he rejects you move on and find someone better and worth your time. Don't get all hung up on this guy if you never ask him out cuz you will regret never asking him out.
2006-06-14 14:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one, i've never done that either and the only advice i can give you, is that i've let some good ones go by, and also guys always tell me that they find it very flattering to get asked out
2006-06-14 14:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by tilda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
^ #1 Wayne Gretsky is my hero
don't ask him 2 be your boyfriend cause thats just desprate
theres this thing it's called dating
u tend to do it till there is no reason to be afraid of asking what you have become...
2006-06-14 14:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him on a friend date which is going sumwhere but as friends first and do that for a few weeks but not everyday and see where that takes u!!!
2006-06-14 14:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by uncertain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be casual about it. dont be romantic too quick, guys dont like it when girls rush. plus it doesnt say much about you anyway when you rush. dont ruin it by rushing, just ask him if he wants to hang out with you somtime and see his reaction go from there and see where it leads you to. good luck and i hope things work out for you.
2006-06-14 14:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋