I have no friends. It's hard for me to keep friends and I don't know why. The only friends I had when I was in high school was in the disabled area of the school. Why? I was unpopular okay but what's keeping me from meeting and making new friends that I actually like and like to hang out with? I'm not physically disabled or anything, just a little emotional because of past experiences. I meet people and i get tired of them, or they get tired of me? I don't know what now?
2006-06-14 07:14:52 · 8 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe i easily get discouraged or tired. i don't really know anymore but i also want to be on my own, but i'm not able to walk on my own yet.
2006-06-14 07:16:25 · update #1
And thanks to the people who answered. I don't need anymore answers if at all thanks (unless its going to be a nice comment :P). Of course.
2006-06-14 07:24:08 · update #2
Hmmmm maybe you need to be more open to people
2006-06-14 07:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. Usually when I meet new friends. It's more of a casual thing (hangout, eat, talk about common interests----music, books, tv, hobbies, etc)....don't explain your whole life and problems because everyone has them and at that point no one really cares or can help you...FYI: I would consider it weird if someone told me everything on the first day/week. Red flag for emotional baggage and needy friend.
Once you have trust/bond you can start opening yourself---emotions, feelings, problems. But don't make this your whole relationship.....Friendship is about sharing good times & laughs....not your tool for letting out everything 24/7. If you feel like you need to let out your emotions try writing it in a journal.
2006-06-14 07:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by LiZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are an energy sucker and people feel drained when around you.
chances are, if you feel better after being around lots of people, you are. (an energy sucker - sucks the energy from people to use for herself)
it's not normally done on purpose.
surround yourself with ' the white light of the holey spirit ' before going anywhere or doing anything. say it before you get out of bed. first thing said in the morning and last thing at night.
i'm not a religous freak i'm more spiritual than anything
2006-06-14 07:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your personality pushes people away. You mentioned that your a little emotional but that translates...Really emotional because there is no Gray area. Also if you are clingy to people that can push them away also. I guess I don't know you enough as a person to give you an accurate assesment.
2006-06-14 07:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to say without actually meeting you. maybe you should try to look at your weak points and try to be objective. maybe you are doing something you don't realize and are driving people away yourself. i'm not saying this is you but i know a girl who also says she doesn't understand why she doesn't have friends and after hanging out with her, i can see why. she is a little crazy. she talks about her "friends" way too much but she doesn't think she's gossiping. she sees it as "helping" them and she truly believes this. that's why SHE doesn't have friends. that's why I keep her at arms length.
2006-06-14 07:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by origchick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should look for people that share the same interest or hobbies as you.
2006-06-14 07:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by hazyangelgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you complain ALOT! Shut up and tell a few jokes...it's not all about you.
2006-06-14 07:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try places
like my space
and the street space.com
2006-06-14 07:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋