i cnt tell my mum?

Question

my best friend recently asked me out and me and him have been going out to weeks now, it kinda feels strange cos iv looked at other blokes wen his liked me all along but me bein a stupid girl haha neva reliased, im well happy that were together but i just cant tell my mum that were together, i no she'd b fine about it she wanted us to get together! and nw we have each time i go to tell her i just cant.... im well embaressed but i dont no why pls help!!

Answer 1

Tell her like it was a big surprise "Mum, mum!! You'll never guess!!"

Let it drop at the dinner table.

Tell her just before you go to school.

I don't care how you do it, its no big deal and she won't see it as such.

She might think its a big deal that you didn't tell her yourself when she was rooting for you and she finds out another way (mums do, you know)

JUST TELL HER:

kisses

a Dad

Answer 2

Woah, you really need to learn some grammer skills. I could barely understand what you were saying.....Are you saying that you and your best friend started going out? And that while you have been dating you've been checking out other guys? And that it's hard to tell your mother that youre dating for some unknown reason?. Well if that's what you mean, who cares if you check out other guys? It's natural. I have checked out many guys while dating my boyfriend. He does it too. It's not that I want the guy, I just find him attractive. As long as you remain faithful to your boyfriend and do not do anything with another guy, it's fine. As for not telling your mom, maybe you're embarassed because he's different. Maybe he's not the cutest guy, or he comes from a different background that you. I would say just tell your mother that you two are dating. If you are sure she will be fine, it's not a problem. Parents are very encouraging and understanding.

Answer 3

I would hope you have a good enough relationship with your mother that you don't ever have to be embarrased by telling her anything. Moms have been there and seen that. You can't be telling her anything she hasn't heard before. Suck it up and tell her. She should be happy for you. Out of Friendships, come the best and most long lasting Relationships.

Answer 4

Just tell her, as u said she'd be fine with it! the longer you leave it the more upset she will be wen u eventually tell her and she finds out just how long u kept her in the dark about your new relationship!

Answer 5

u dont have to be embarrassed with ur mum, she knows whats good and bad for u so gather the courage and tell her cos im sure she will be happy for u.

Answer 6

don't feel embarrassed moms only want what is best for are kids
we might tease Little but are intentions are good besides i went thought the same thing when i was 14 i was a little nervous at first but i told her and it was OK she teased me a little and then she said i told you so and we had her trust and blessing it was nice nothing feels better when you got her blessing and her trust

Answer 7

hey buddy if you mum knew about u people and she her self dint have any problem then i dont think u need to worry just go and tell her "mum i think i like him, and is it ok with you" i dont think she will have any problem with this, go on buddy mum will accept u people and best of luck in ur life god bless u both

Answer 8

you need to go back to school and learn how to spell and proper grammar. if your mom like the boy what is the problem!!! This question makes no since.

Answer 9

Dont tell her yet in case it doesnt work out between you and him but you eventually have to tell her

Answer 10

Maybe it is because that you are a little embarassed about telling your mom she is right for a change.