ok so ive posted questions in the past stating "my boyfriend". if any of it involved sex, i always get these answers stating
"you must be young since you're not married. dont have sex"
how can anyone ASSUME something like that? no, my boyfriend and i are not officially married. legally, we are. according to the government of canada, he is my husband. we have a child together and have been together for years. he was my first and only, and we're planning on spending the rest of our lives together. you want to know WHY we havent actually gone through with it? because we have aspirations as to what our wedding day will be like and unfortunately, those aspirations may be costly. my father passed away yrs ago and my mom cant afford to pay for our wedding. his parents cant afford it either. why would we put ourselves into a $10000 debt just to have a TITLE, rather than taking that money to further our lives together? we've got a house, 2 cars, and our only debt is our car.
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2007-09-18
09:10:16
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raspberry
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Marriage & Divorce