a close friend has been concerned recently with her daughters' bebo account. [we live in uk] the pc is in the main room of the house, so she is keeping an eye but has noticed some foul language etc.
she investigated the account and is gobsmacked by some of the content, particularly the 'tag' which says "i'd only kick you out of bed to f*** you on the floor"
the girls is 13.
we know they're full of bravado, but this is excessive and inappropriate.
should my friend terminate the account then tell her daughter, no discussion, tough luck etc?
or sit her down and explain how awful this is and give her a chance to tone down her account profile?
this will be the 2nd time she has done this type of thing.
the parents are hard-working, responsible, kids have to do chores etc, this is not a wild house so do not judge, please just advise, as my friend is torn between clamping down massively, and trying to talk in an adult rational way.as its happened before, i think clamp down, but ...
2007-08-11
20:18:11
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hedgewitch
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