My wonderful byf is very dedicated to my children & someday we plan marriage. He contributes to the household though he does not live there yet, he eats and sleeps there 75% of the time. Soon my daughter is to attend a 10 day conference in DC (she's 17) & I thought it would be neat to drive down & all of us stay for a weekend. I looked into it & the cost is more then expected & I have the $, but also other things planned with it. I have never asked him for $, he's always just paid or insisted I take it & he's always giving the kids $1 or 2 when they come to me for it. We have discussed finances & he's not rich either - we are both just kind average & we budget. We've also talked about living together and shared finances and we've agreed on what to do there, but the trip was a great idea until I realized how much it would cost & he didn't say anything except "your right, what about...this & that". Would it be wrong to say - would you help pay for the trip so that we could go?
2007-04-25
04:26:16
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martiek7
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Marriage & Divorce