We have been dating 5 years, living together 3 and a half years and a month ago I asked him to move out. We were having communication problems, I had issues with him 24/7 on call for work, how he didn't make enough effort to get to know my friends/family when I always hung out with his, and I was bothered by his constantly getting angry and blaming me for problems when I never did anything to warrant it. He's 7 years younger than me and this is the first adult relationship for the both of us.
I asked him to move out under bad circumstances - we were fighting and it came out. I see a balanced picture now but I still think its good for him to move out - it'll be his 1st time living with roommates, learn to handle problems on his own versus lashing out at me b/c I'm convenient.
I want to maintain a relationship or at least a friendship with him. I can understand he's still mad at me and frustrated, but a lot of ppl date w/o living together or we could be open to dating others too.
2007-04-09
15:30:08
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