(I have been married for 1 1/2 years now and my husband and I are currently seeking counseling.)
I feel like my husband does not want to confide in me, or tell me anything about himself. He talks more (about himself) and jokes around when we are out with friends, but doesnt include me unless I make some large gesture of interest in him like kissing or touching.
We argue everyday over stupid things, but even though they are little, they still hurt my feelings.
1. a friend took us and another couple out to dinner and forgot his wallet. I go to the bathroom with the other wife, and as im coming out, see my husband paying the bill. I said, "what are you doing? we dont have $150 in the account, we cant afford this." and he says dont worry about it and hands the card to the waitress without even looking at me. (our account was overdrawn, he does it alot)
2. He has an "I dont care" attitude that affects every aspect of our marriage.
3. When we get into an argument he clams up
2007-03-16
04:26:10
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Jessica L
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