Why do I feel this way after 1 mth of my break up?

Question

I feel totally fine during weekdays and feel that its a relief that I'm single now. But I get all lonely and I miss him during wkends..
.Why am I feeling this way? Does it mean that I still love him? How can I move on?

Answer 1

I know exactly how u feel. My boyfriend of nearly 2 years brok up with me a couple of weeks ago...by txt and on my birthday aswell. And although i am so hurt and hate him for what he did to me i still love him. U cant expect to just turn your feelings off, even tho it may seem that he can. Weekends are always going to be hard because of all the things u did with him at weekends. Just give it time u sound like u are on the right track...its his loss

Answer 2

It doesn't mean you still love him - it means that you haven't yet found things new to do to fill the time you normally would have spent with him on the weekends. Most of us are so busy during the week we really don't have time for anyone - even not enough time for ourselves! The weekends come and we like to have something to look forward to. Now that he's not there you need to seek out new friends, take some classes you've been putting off, going to new places you have been wanting to see. It will get better with time.

Answer 3

I think what you are feeling is normal. During the week you are busy but on the weekends you miss him because you were use to being with him during those times. Only time can heal a broken heart. Trying making yourself busy on the weekends doing things that interest you. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

That happens to me to. I think that it's normanl you get use to being with the person. You start realizong that you guys really had your good times. I think that you probably still have feelings for him. If you guys broke up it was for a reason but that doesnt mean you dont feel anything. Just try to do more things go out meet new friends. Dont stay concentrated on that too much. Its normal i bet he feels the same way.

Answer 5

First of all since you have never been married you should be in the single and dating section. Second of all this is your first relationship and he still occasionally gives you vibes he still cares about you. Stop letting him play you and move on... how do you do it? Stop thinking about him and go out there and do things you want to do. Now you can be selfish and think only of you. Have fun and enjoy this new found freedom. No more communications with him!

Answer 6

it doesn't mean you love him. it's a normal feeling to miss the person after a breakup because during the relationship you are sharing everything. that tends to leave a hole when you stop sharing. the best way to get aver it is to start a new relationship-always go forwards, unless you broke up for a really, really stupid reason

Answer 7

You have more spare time on weekends and that gives you room to ponder on the things you used to share together. You need to keep yourself busier with things that can help to divert your attention. I bet you in no distant time you will enjoy a settled state of mind.

Answer 8

Some people still have feelings for their exes because there was a time when they cared for them greatly and was always there for them. I guess you just miss being around him..and I guess you just have to find someone else to get over it.

Answer 9

how long were you together? some times getting over some one is easier than getting over the habit of having some one. there is a big difference.

Answer 10

because on the weekends you have more time on your hands, make plans for the weekend with friends, so you won't have time to feel lonely.