At 46, I fell in love with a man and moved in too quickly. After I moved in, he told me his savings were gone, he didn't make as much as he lead me to believe,we wouldn't be able to buy a house, constantly stressed about $ and I had to bring in $, even though I am on a pension for an illness.
From the start the sex was not that great, as he had ED. I worked very hard to please him, but he gave little in return. I hoped it would get better. 2 months after moving in, he stopped having sex with me. He may be ill, but won't go to a doctor until insurance comes in. I am extremely compassionate, but it's now been 4 months without any sex, hardly a kiss, but he loves me so much and tells me all the time and is very sweet. There are things I wanted, like laughter, fun, sex, plans that we don't have. I do adore him. He's not cheating/ gay. I feel so lost because I give so much, but he doesn't give back in ways I need. He keeps saying he has no energy and too anxious. Please share advise.
2007-01-29
18:31:09
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