we hav ben together rite from te age of 2.we always do things to gether and loved each other soo much.now i am in my 10th grade and i hav got admission in dav and hav to shift to a diff place.i dont wanna leave her and sometimes i even cry.but she is very indifferent towards tis isssue.i am very unhappy abt tis.is she really happy that i am goin away?
2007-01-29 18:33:52 · 12 answers · asked by ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is happy for u sweetie..! i think if u hav to go there u go ahead..!and i think she'll ms u a lot...!bt she cant stop u from this thats why she's noty showing her feelings to u so that u can go there happily and 1more thing y u r being sad now u hav ceel,net,,,,,etc alwz keep in touch with her and often meet her wen u get time that will mor intersting believ me.dont be sad sweetie..be happy and alwz think POSSITIVE
2007-01-29 18:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by StylishT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No Honey, she is not happy that you are going away. I understand from another answerer that it is pretty difficult to get admissions in Dav. However close your friendship may seem among females there are always these tiny sparks of jealousy that keep flying from time to time. Mothers being jealous of daughters, daughters being jealous of mothers, jealousy among sisters, friends, etc. is not uncommon. Perhaps your friend is a wee bit jealous that you have got admission, perhaps she tried and did not succeed. Of course she may be dreading the idea that you guys are going to be separated and has gone into her shell. Why don't you have a heart to heart chat with her. By the way Congratulations! Well whatever happens please don't cancel your admission.
2007-01-30 07:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she has become mature enough to realize that friendship does not mean that you should stick together all your life and forego opportunities to rise in life. Perhaps seeing your frustration, she is putting up a, indifferent face so that instead of keep missing her, you can concentrate better on studies and prove yourself. Once you have both attained what you have always apired for in life, you can always find ways to keep the friendship alive. My friend and I sometimes meet only once a year and yet we have the most beautiful friendship ever and we do not try to stick to each other. Have patience and realize that you have a gem of a friend with you.
2007-01-29 19:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations ash. I am also in chennai. I congratulated u caz u got admission in Dav. I know how tough it will be to get admissions in schools like hose in Chennai.
Well, about ur friendship I think u should talk to her directly about this.
2007-01-29 21:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by Meera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is really happy that you are at a better place. After thats what freiends are for. they are the ones who are happy for you & your success.
She ofcourse will miss being with you. but life moves on. both of you need to achieve your goals in life. now you both are in higher grades & have a world bigger in front of you than what it used to be earlier. both of you need to choose from the different things the world offers you.
your friendship will remain THE BEST. priorities might change with time & age. thats no reason to complain.
2007-01-30 00:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that happens often with friends. Neither of you want to part, but circumstances change and it will happen. Try not to cry or try to limit the crying. You are both getting older and have to face the changes that just come unexpectedly. :c(
2007-01-29 18:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either this is an indication that she doesn't love u or or maybe she thinks it is the best for u to move to a diff place for your good.Girls often r sensitive.Ask her about this.Right now concentrate on your studies.
2007-01-29 18:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and distance shoukd not bother real friends. wherever you are it does not matter .Life has such seperation it should be the effort of you both to keep the old mode and bond growing
2007-01-29 19:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will surely feel what u feel when u move out of there .....after some days if she really miss u thn ur friendship is true and if not?............
"Before I sleep and after I wake up and all the hours in between ... you occupy my mind. So, practically every moment of the day you are in my thoughts. I miss you."
"It's true we don't know what we've got until its gone, but we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives."
"I did three things today; miss you, miss you, and miss you."
was it nice ...thank u
2007-01-29 18:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a natural feeling only which you both could absorb suiting your situation.
2007-01-29 18:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋