my boyfriend, whom i've been with for 4 yrs and living with, has been dissappearing at night, like 2 am and won't come home or contact me or family for 20-24 hrs. he won't say where he's going. he gets drunk and leaves. i am beginning to not trust him, and frankly i'm kind of scared that if i have intercourse with him i might catch something. i mean, i do trust him, but only to a certain point. he has left 3 times within the past 7 days like this. He'll drink either here or the bar, and not come home or call us for a day! he can't drive either, he has a dui, and he even took my car without me knowing about it twice this week. I just want to know, how suspicious is this of cheating? should i ask him to get tested? i would like to work things out and help him straighten up, but should i use me as leverage? such as "I'm not going to be here for you until you grow up, prove your trustworthiness, ect"?
what exactly should i do? please, any alternatives for breaking up.
2007-01-10
23:10:37
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Bitterly Sweet
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Singles & Dating