I have been with a guy for about 18 months now and we are currently happy. I am 20 and so is he, but I know he has no long term plans to be with me. He completely rules out marriage or children ever, and I want both of those things (eventually, I'm talking 10 years in the future or so). I would like to know whether I should stay with him for now and have fun, knowing there is no future, or quit whilst I am ahead. I really don't want 2 more years to go by and be in exactly the same position. I know there are things he wont tell me about his past, and he doesn't like me borrowing his phone or laptop. This means that I cannot trust him completely. I just dont know what to do. Part of me says I am too young to be thinking like this and the other says why waste your life on something you know has no future. Please let me know whether you are male or female when answering so I know what perspective you are coming from.
2007-01-03
22:29:35
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spaced_out_sprout
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Singles & Dating