My husband has a difficult personality, and flips out at almost anything so I feel I often walk on eggshells and still end up getting him mad.
Whenever he makes a mistake and I get angry, he apologizes and I forgive him immediately. If I make a mistake and apologize, he remains angry and ignores me for days. I have to grovel in order for him to forgive me.
Yesterday we went grocery shopping. We've spent a lot of money lately and are REALLY tight in our budget. At the grocery store I decided not to get certain "treat" items (chocolates, ice cream, etc) to save $.
When we finished shopping he says, "I know we can't really afford it, but could I go to the liquor store just this once and get a bottle of whisky"?
I said, "No. We can't afford it. I gave up certain things shopping, so no, you can't get alcohol". He got mad and says I'm selfish. This morning I apologized. He still hasn't forgiven me.
He does things like this often. Is he emotionally controlling? I cant live like this..
2006-12-23
07:37:09
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Delfina D
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Marriage & Divorce