I have been w my guy for 3 years. He lives w me in my house. He has no driving licence or car, so I am chauffeur, in particular to take him to pick up his daughter from prev marriage, round trip of 4 hrs to collect on Fri or Sat, then again to take home on Sun, every other weekend. He has debts, too, but money isn't an issue between us. Originally we were going to have kids, now he's changed his mind, and it would be a struggle anyway, as I'd have to keep working as I pay the mortgage etc. (He does work, but pays £400 per month child support and paying off debts, too, plus is no good at managing money, so I would never rely on him for financial stability) I know there are probs in the relationship, and this is worse as my way is to talk, but he refuses to do so. My worry is that I am so emotinally needy that I have made him selfish, and because I don't rely on him on a practical level, he has stopped trying to do anything 4 me. Things were better at first, he made me feel special.
2006-12-17
02:23:11
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Rebecca M
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