I'm married to Korean.We have 1 child but she has microcephaly & cerebral palsy.She is so pretty,sweet & friendly child.Some people said;she looks an angel,she looks so gorgeous and friendly.But my in-laws,they're not proud of her.When we went to the hospital,some patients asked her if she is her grandaughter.She replied "anyo"it means No.I pretend that i didn't heard her answer,i smile but deep inside my heart i felt too pain.Second time,when my in laws visit us here in overseas.She asked me to go shopping with her and my husband.My husband said bring our daughter but my in law said:No,just leave her to our friend.Her face seems not happy if we bring my daughter..I tried to understand my in laws because i know where they came from,they grew up in a country where too much pressure of the society..They are worried if their friends knows that they have disabled grandaughter..Why they worried?if they are true friends they should accept,support and help?Why they feel embarrased..It hurts
2006-11-13
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