I'm married to a wonderful man. However, it's been a concern of mine if he still harbors feelings for an ex girlfriend he dated years before he met me. I knew they were friends after they broke up and after he and I married, we started hanging out in a group along with her boyfriend. At first I didn't mind and I never felt anything between them, but lately my thoughts have bothered me enough to not take any chances and I told him I didn't want him talking to her anymore. At first it bugged him but now he promises it doesn't matter to him one way or the other. He insists he only thinks of her as a friend and has no interest in her, but little things he's confided in me (like expressing his concern over her well-being of jumping around from guy to guy) really settles in my mind and no matter how many times I ask, he always insists there's nothing there. He's never cheated on me and I fully believe he never would, but I still wonder if there's more in his heart than what he's telling me.
2006-09-13
12:14:06
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barkbarkshark
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Marriage & Divorce