Relationships are about sharing life & it's best with a friend. Values for a life partner are also very important. If I get all of this and get turned by her I’ll be very happy.
Typically I've been attracted 1st, 2nd got to know her as a friend, 3rd, sex & the chemicals. The chemicals kick in 4a year then I'm great at being a friend so that lasts 2years (3 yrs). Then typically there has been something wrong, i.e: shared values. This hasn’t quite clicked & end up going in different directions & splitting up with resentment
This time my approach is going to be:
1) who am i attracted to, physically, chemically, sexually?
2) what are their values, are we compatible?
3) dreams and future stuff?
4) can we be good friends?
if these are all OK then sex, because it's the sex that gets me into a relationship which isn't really going to work well long term.
Let me know what you think specially women in between ages of 28 -38 think it will work or what is wrong with the approach
2006-09-06
02:51:12
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lifeontrack2006
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