My 41 year old husband left 4 weeks ago after 18 years of marriage to live in an apartment I am 53 (he lied to me about his age) and we have a daughter of 16. Nine months ago I discovered he was having an affair I was upset, but I didn't rant and rave. I made it clear I wanted to stay with him, but he said he felt stifled by the marriage was not the marrying type and needed to be by himself to sort out what he wanted in life. It was unfortunate I had found out about the affair because that meant nothing and was a mistake, but nevertheless, he needed some time apart. Throughtout the 8 months before he left, he changed his story constantly, also saying that if I hadn't found out about the affair he wouldn't have left, if I had kept quiet this wouldn't have happened. Since he left, he comes to the house every weekend, takes me out, we are going on holiday together, we sleep together but he blows hot and cold. Should I act cool towards him or let him know I miss him? Is he sick?
2006-09-05
22:47:31
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Marriage & Divorce