I am 18 and am seeing a guy who is 26. I love him and love being with him. The problem is, he's engaged but has decided that he doesn't love her and is going to leave her for me. He has talked about settling down and being together forever, which at first i thought was great, but now is scary because he is really genuine about leaving her which i never really believed he would. The problem is not that though, the problem is, even though i would love him to leave her so we can finally have a proper relationship, i am now thinking..i am 18, i dont want to settle down! But if i tell him this, surely i will lose him? But the thought terrifies me because i love him so much. I dont want him to change his life for me, only for me to say we shouldn't see each other exclusively. Because he wants me and only me. But i want to see other people as i get older. So do i let him leave her and see how i feel then? Or tell him and risk losing him?
2006-07-31
05:51:26
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littledear
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