Ok here's the situation. I'm 26 years old and engaged to a man who's been my best friend since we were dorky 15 year olds. So needless to say I deeply love and respect this man. However, about a year ago, he finally introduced me to his older best friend "John." They are practically like brothers. But from the moment I met his friend "John", we clicked instantly, and I fell for him in a way I've never fallen for anyone. I love my fiance but we have almost completely opposite personalities. Meanwhile me and his best friend John are so much alike it's almost scary. He's truly everything I never thought I'd find in a person. Now I don't know what to do. Sometimes I just want to call off my engagement, because I don't want to spend the rest of my life with one man but be in love with another. On the other hand, I don't want to mess up what would be a life-long union just because I have the hots for the best man. Do I leave, or do I get over this, grow up, and marry the man I've chosen?
2006-06-14
21:33:40
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Marriage & Divorce